St Stephe's Cemetery Inscriptions
ST. STEPHEN'S EPISCOPAL CHURCH CEMETERY, CULPEPER, VIRGINIA


Donna S. Boyd  <[email protected]>


St. Stephen's is the only antebellum church in Culpeper, the building dating from 1820,
although there are records of vestrymen from here in pre-Revolutionary times. This
cemetery is located on the church property at 115 N. East Street, Culpeper, Virginia.  It
lies to the right (south) of the front door of the church, and is composed of only four (4)
rows of graves.  Some of the stones are broken or chipped; one or two are so badly
weathered that they can no longer be read at all.  One has fallen victim to ice damage
from water getting into fissures, freezing, and cracking off whole sheets of the stone. 
Twice in the last fifty years the steeple has fallen off this church when it was struck by
lightning and high winds, once in 1956 and again in 1989.  At those times, it fell on some
of the headstones and damaged them slightly.  One has been knocked over and now
leans against another.  A couple of the stones are not in the regular rows, indicating
that they were once upright and had been knocked down.

A road/driveway bounds the south and east sides of the cemetery.  It is no longer an
active cemetery, although the columbarium between the church and the parish hall is
still active and accepts the ashes of parishioners. I have surveyed this cemetery starting
from the road at its rear (east) side, numbering the rows from there, and reading from
left to right.  Row One is closest to the road. There are four rows. Names and dates in
parentheses indicate that they were obtained from alternate sources since they were
illegible on the stone.  Dashes (---) indicate writing that could not be read. An asterisk
indicates that I have done more research on that item which I will provide for
descendants interested.


Row One:
Stone 1:  tall, upright rectangular stone with roof peak shape at top.   

NORRIS
children of Richard Norris   
and his wife Sarah Newby
1802  Sarah Ann  1886
1803  Ann Eliza  1868
1804  Mary Thomas  1869
1806  William Calvert, Sr.  1887
son of Thaddeus Norris
and his wife Ann Calvert
children of William Calvert 
and Ann Eliza Norris
1840  William Calvert, Jr. 1909
1843  Ann Eliza, Jr.  1894
                                


Row One:
Stone 2:    upright stone, about 2 1/2 ft. tall, fancy top; writing very hard to decipher from
being eroded by weather.  One foot high footstone in the same design as the headstone
with initials C. E. N.    One of six children, he never married. Dotted lines indicate
portions that could not be read.

In Memory Of
Charles E. Norris
son of
(Richard) & (Sarah Newby) Norris
---------------------------------
He was born----------  ---------- 1797
and died on the 
20th day of May 1831
in his 35th year.
He was ---- -- ------ dispensation
of providence in the early part of his
life, but continued till the day of his 
death.          

Stone 3: 

This is a large flat rectangular stone (3' x 6'), completely covering the grave.
SACRED    
To the memory of
SARAH ANN NORRIS 
relict of      
RICHARD NORRIS
She was born in Lancaster
on the 18th day of January 1768
and died in Culpeper
on the (24)th day of July 1886
in the (86)th year of her age.*
She stretched out her hand in the ------
She -------- -------- ---------  ---------- -------
 ------ ------ ---- the  ---- of --------
 Her children arise and will be blessed
 Her husband also, and he praised her. 

Stone 4:  matches Stone 3 in its size, shape, and lack of ornamentation.

THIS MONUMENT                  
 is erected to the memory of   
RICHARD NORRIS             
who was born in the County of Lancaster    
on the 6th day of March 1765
and died in the County of Culpeper       
on the 29th day of September 1833  
in the 67th year of his age.    
He was polite, kind, and gentle in his manner        
sincere in his friendship and hospitable to his acquaintances. 
His family and his friends bewail his departure
and all who knew him bear testimony to his worth.                      

Stone 5:  

 This is a small, 2-foot tall headstone shaped like a scroll.  Art work on both sides of
headstone.  Footstone 6" high, with wide space between initials.        T.       N.
From their family records, it would appear that this baby was named for his grandfather
of the same name.*

THADDEUS
Son of  
R. C. &  A. E. Norris
Born April 3, 1843
Died (April 5, 1844)*
                 
                                                                                      
Stone 6:

An ornate upright headstone, this has an elaborate curved design at top of stone, which
has upturned rounded outside corners.  Centered beneath that is an inset oval
containing a rose lying sideways, with the flower pointing right and the stem extending to
the left.  Beneath that is the inscription, followed by another inset oval with rose,
matching the one above.  In cemetery art, a rose symbolizes the brevity of life,*
especially apropos in the death of a young girl named Rosalie. There is no footstone.

IN MEMORY OF
ROSALIE S.
oldest daughter of
W. C. & Ann E Norris
who departed this life June 12, 1851
aged 15 years & 10 months.
                                                
STONE 7:  

     This stone has an ornate top, similar to stone 2.  Footstone is badly damaged by
weathering.  Only the initial G. is visible.                                

IN 
MEMORY OF 
GEORGE MERCER
aged 66 years
second son of
Genl. Hugh Mercer
who fell at Princeton
January 3rd, 1777

STONE 8:   This is a  tall rounded upright stone.  Footstone:    S. S. 

IN MEMORIAM
SAMUEL SLAUGHTER
OF WESTERN VIEW
1766 - 1857
THE VENERABLE VESTRYMAN 
AND WATCHFUL WARDEN
OF ST. MARK'S PARISH*
                 
                               
THE CHIEF FOUNDER
AND FOR 4-- YEARS VESTRYMAN*
OF ST. STEPHEN'S CHURCH
CULPEPER, VA.
                    
STONE 9:   upright marker.   Footstone:  L. H.  The words "In Memoriam" are written
curved around the top of the headstone.  Centered under that arch is a weeping willow
tree.  Beneath that is the inscription. This is one of the characteristic designs of J. B.
Gaddess & Bro. of Lynchburg, who cut the stone.*

In Memoriam
LUCY
consort of A. P. HILL
who
departed this life
Sept. 13, 1812
in the 50th Year
of her age.

Stone 10: 

This is a tall obelisk with square double base.  Obelisk is mounted on smaller square,
which is mounted on larger square.  The inscription begins about a third of the way
down the shaft. The shaft is badly worn in oblique ridges, which not only obscure the
inscription, but also thwart any effort to interpret the inscription by rubbing. The dotted
lines below what is given represent words that could not be deciphered.  Obelisks were
typical of the Gaddess works.

IN MEMORY OF
AMBROSE P.
HILL
Born
March 13, 1785
Died Feb. 26, 1858
Aged 72 years
11 Months 13 days
----------------------
----------------------------
----------------------------   

          This Ambrose P. Hill is the collateral ancestor of the Ambrose Powell Hill who was a
general in the C.S.A.  He was also a soldier, having served as a private in the War of
1812.  His father was Henry Hill and his mother was Ann Powell, both of Culpeper. He
was a vestryman of the old Bromfield Parish, Culpeper, in 1752. 
           
Stone 11:        This stone lies halfway between Rows 1 & 2.  It has fallen and broken
crookedly in half, so that part of it is under the grass thatch.  Its design matches the
design of Stone 9 exactly.

In Memoriam
FRANCES                    
consort of A. P. HILL                               
Died Sept. 19th 1820                                
in the 31st Year                              
of her age.
                                          
Stone 12:
 Very small stone; it appears to have been a larger stone, broken and reset in
a flat rectangular concrete base approximately 30 inches by 14 inches.  The upright
portion has an arched (curved) top, around which are inscribed the words "IN MEMORY
OF," that are nearly illegible.  Beneath that is an inset oval carving of some sort, so worn
as to be unrecognizable.  Under that, partially obscured by being inset, is an illegible line
of writing.            

Stone 13: Only a footstone marked with the initials L W R.                                




Row Two:
Stone 1:  Large upright rectangular stone; 2 footstones: Left: F. M.  Right: S. P. B.

          FAYETTE MAUZY    
               BORN 1801
          DIED MAR. 1873
                HIS WIFE
            SALLIE PEYTON BRADFORD
          BORN JAN. 1819
          DIED JUNE 1845
            MARY MAUZY RIXEY
                  DIED
           MAY 22, 1925*
          
Stone 2: Rounded stone, with weeping willow tree inset at top.  Name set in curved
outline.  This stone was broken/cracked and mended at the left side of its base. 
Footstone: F. D.
               
            FLORA
            Wife of
           TRAVERS DANIEL
            Died Oct. 16, 1883
          Aged 27 years
            Weep not, she is not
            Dead but sleepeth.

Stone 3:  Pointed stone, with what appears to be laurel decoration above and below the
inscription.   Footstone: S.A. B.
 
          SALLIE ALICE        
           wife of S. S. Bradford          
                     DIED
          Oct. 20, 1858
          Aged 44 years

Stone 4: Large obelisk, with triple base.  Footstone S.K.B.

          SAMUEL KELLETT      
                BRADFORD,
                BORN 1786
                 DIED 1850.
                 HIS WIFE
        EMILY SLAUGHTER
               BRADFORD
                BORN 1791
                DIED 1871

     surname on first rectangular base of obelisk:
                BRADFORD

Stone 5:
Octagonal shaped stone; footstone:  S. S. B. written on the top of the footstone, rather
than on the front side as all the others are. Quotation inscribed at bottom of headstone
very difficult to read.

     S. S. Bradford, Jr.     
      Sept. 30, 1880
       July 27, 1901
     _____________
     
     To live in hearts
     we leave behind
        is not to die.

Stone 6: Footstone F. B. B.

      Frances Battle Bradford    
             Born
            May 29, 1848
             Died
            Dec. 16, 1943
     Nearer My God to THEE.


Stone 7: Plain rectangular marble stone.

 Caroline Grandin Bradford      
          Virginia
              Y3
          USNRF
             World War I
            April 12, 1883
        February 11, 1959

Stone 8: Upright stone with curved top.  Footstone I. F.
                To the memory of
            ISAAC FOOTE
          Born June 21, 1786
          Died July 1, 1815
          ________________
     
          Both died in the hope of
          the Glorious Resurrection.

Stone 9: Upright stone with curved top, matching Stone 8.  Footstone E. H. F.

          To the memory of 
           MRS. ELLEN H. FOOTE
             Born Sept. 27, 1793   
             Died Aug. 11, 1852


Stone 10: Large flat stone with jagged diagonal crack running from left to right about in
the middle of the stone. Asterisks [*] mark the beginning and end of the crack.)  The
crack runs from the beginning of the seventh line of the inscription through the next four
lines to the middle right side of the stone.

                 SACRED
             to the memory of
            HANNAH DREW
               WIDOW OF WILLIAM DREW
          Who died June the 4th 1828
     At her residence in the County of Culpeper
     IN THE 76TH YEAR OF HER AGE.
       *The bland and accomplished manners
              Open and generous charities
           And exemplary virtues of this lady
          Secured to her
The respectful regard and kind wishes of society*
       In the various relations of domestic life.
     Of social intercourse and christian piety
         The measure of her duties
           Was sacredly fulfilled.
             This memorial of her worth 
  Is laid upon her tomb in the fervent hope
That she has escaped from the perils of time
     To the bliss of eternity.
                                            
Stone 11:    Upright stone with pointed arched top;

               SACRED
               to the memory of
                     J. C. GIBSON
                Born the 17th of
                November 1793
                Died the 6th of December 
                1919 in the 67th year
               Of his Age.
                             

Stone 12: Huge flat stone containing the vital statistics of the Gibson family.

          GIBSON
JONATHAN CATLETT GIBSON
  1793  ---------------------   1849
       COLONEL WAR 1812
        HIS WIVES
MARTHA DANDRIDGE BALL              (stone 13)
  1799  ---------------------- 1822
MARY WILLIAMS SHACKLEFORD
   1798  --------------------- 1892
        THEIR CHILDREN
     MARTHA DANDRIDGE
          FRANCES ANN
 MARY CATLETT FITZHUGH
       1826 ---------- 1897
   LUCY ELLEN BUCKNER
       1827 ---------- 1920
  ANNE EUSTACE GERRY
        SUSAN (SUE) WELCH
                 MILDRED                           (Stone 14)
               ELIZABETH

      WILLIAM ST. PIERRE
LT. D 4TH REG. VA CAVALRY
"LITTLE FORK RANGERS" C.S.A.
    KILLED BATTLE ANTIETAM
    
 JONATHAN CATLETT, JR.
CAPT. CO. K, 49TH REG. VA INF
 "SPERRYVILLE RIFLES" C.S.A. 
     
          EDWIN (NED)
1ST SGT. CO. K, 49TH REG.VA INF
    "MOSBY'S RANGERS" C.S.A.
           
       JOHN WILLIAMS
PVT. CRENSHAW'S BATTERY VA ART

                    EUSTICE
CAPT. & Q.M. CO. K "SPERRYVILLE RIFLES"
  49TH REG. SMITH'S BRIG. VA. INF.

"DANDRIDGE,"  CULPEPER CO., VA

Stone 13: Fancy arched top (see Stone #2, Row #1) However, stone was broken
horizontally just below the inscription and has been mended. 
         
      SACRED
     to the memory of
     Martha D. Gibson
   Wife of J. C. Gibson
 Born the 9th of October
 1799 Died in April 1822
      In the 23rd year
          of her age.

Stone 14: Arched (curved) top inscribed with the word SACRED following the curve.

               SACRED
          to the memory of
     MILDRED W. GIBSON
             Daughter of
          Col. J. C. Gibson
             Born Jan. 18th, 1832
              Died April 3rd, 1859
      Blessed are the dead who die
       in the LORD. Lev. CL. 14 VM

Stone 15: Small stone.  This one also appears to have been broken and reset.
Footstone M W F, with left side partially crumbled off.  It is impossible to tell whether the
second T in her name is part of the Margaret or an initial, though probably the latter.

     In Memory of
          Mrs.
MARGERETTFREEMAN
    Born 11 May 1800

Row 3
Stone 1: This stone is so weatherworn as to have rendered the name and some of the
rest of the inscription illegible. It seems to be the softest stone in the cemetery.  
The surname of the decedent was ascertained by the surname of her husband, given on
the stone. 
                   
               SACRED
              to the memory of
      (ELIZABETH M. BERNARD)
                   Wife of 
               D. M. Bernard
                 of Petersburg, Va.
          Who died 6th Oct. 1837
              In the 24th year of her age.
          Her ________ was that of
                 a meek and mild spirit
          Which is in the sight of 
          GOD, of great ________
                    __________


Stone 2:        Highly decorated top with scrollwork on a rectangular stone.
                              
                    Sacred
                   To the memory of
                  JOHN VEVERS  
                 who departed this life 
                 on the 2nd July, 1838
                       aged 60 years.
               He was born in Yorkshire
                           England
                who for the last 30 years
               a Citizen of the United States.
                   He was an honest man and a worthy
                  member of Society.
              And died in full assurance of --------
          -------- which remains -----the people
                    of God.
                    This memorial to his memory is
             erected by his bereaved Widow.

Stone 3:    Large flat stone with a raised cross at the top over the inscription.  No
footstone.  

                    Rev. Charles Aylett Ashby
                             July 19, 1874
                             Aug. 14, 1962                      
                                  Son of                               
                          William Aylett Ashby
                                    &
                        Eleanor Pearson Ashby

Stone 4:  Identical to Stone 3.   
    
                      Evelyn Willis Garnet
                               Wife of
                 Rev. Charles Aylett Ashby               
                             Aug. 23, 1879         
                            Dec. 20, 1940
                                
                           "It Is All Right."

Stone 5: Small upright stone with curved top, very worn and eroded; hardly legible.  

                    In Memory of
                          CHRISTIAN MANN     
                    Native of Germany
                      Died Feb. ---, 1833    
                     Aged about 45 years.

Stone 6:  Very ornately decorated upright stone with slightly rounded top.  Name is
carved in a rainbow-type curve beneath a curved floral carving under a bulls-eye
centered between two decorative borders in a roughly triangular shape.  Below the first
three lines, the italicized eight-line inscription is nearly impossible to read.

                    Elizabeth T. Cook
                    Died July 2, 1850 
                    in the 65th year of her age.
                    
Stone 7: This stone has an arched top.  In the middle of the arch is a flower set within a
circle; it appears to be a rose.  
     
     In Memory of
    ELIZA H.F. STORROW
daughter of ......Campe & M. C. Carter
and wife of Col. Samuel ? Storrow
     Born March 6, 1794
     Died April 12, 18?0
       Our   Mother
   She sleeps in Jesus

Stone 8: 
               To the memory of
          Francis J. Thompson
               Who departed this life
                April 7, 18?? (could be 55) in
                The 63rd year
                 Of his age.

Stone 9:  completely unreadable

Stone 10: Badly broken, but still upright, this stone has been flaked off by the elements.
There are only a few words and parts of words visible that can be read, but some can be
inferred from the context.  The Christian name on the top line is unreadable, but the first
letter appears to be either a C or a G followed by 3 other letters. The next row is
indented, as is each alternate row for the rest of the inscription. On it, the letters "Ligh"
can be made out, seeming to indicate this may have been a Lightfoot infant.  The third
row is missing the first letter of the first word, but the next letters are "-ied Dec."   The
fourth row consists only of the number 18, centered on the stone.  The fifth row says,
"aged 2 mo (and a portion of the letter "n" shows).  The sixth row, which is indented,
says, "and 13 days."  Beneath that, beginning at the edge of the stone, is the scripture,
"Suffer little children (stone is broken here)...  The next line says "...come unto..." and at
the very bottom, scarcely visible now in the grass and the staining from weather "...of
Heaven."

Stone 11: This stone is a very large, flat stone.  It has much mold on it, making parts of
it difficult to read. 

               Sacred to the memory of
          FRANCIS THORNTON LIGHTFOOT
                    BORN
               November 1, 1809
                     DIED
                       April 6, 18---
                      and his wife
          GERALDINE FIELDER LIGHTFOOT
                      BORN
               January 26, 18---
                       DIED
                      April 20, 1896

Stone 12:   Another large, flat stone; this one is even more mold-covered than the
previous one.  It is very difficult to read.

               In Memory of
          Thomas Walker Lightfoot
          who departed this life
          March 6, 1851
          in the forty-second year of his age.
          Exemplary
         in all the relations of life
          Both social and domestic
          and blending
          with a rare felicity
          INFLEXIBILITY OF PRINCIPLE
               with
          MILDNESS OF TEMPER,  
           He commanded         
           respect and esteem
           AND PREEMINENTLY ENJOYED
          the love and confidence
          OF ALL WHO KNEW HIM.

Stone 13:     Upright rectangular stone with rounded top.  Name is in fat block letters
and surrounded by a rectangular double border.  

               MAJ. PHILLIP LIGHTFOOT
                    Died April 17, 1877
                    In the 81st Year
                        Of his age.
                    _____________

      "An honest man is the noblest work of God."

A. Gaddess, Balt.


Row 4:

Stone 1:     No footstone.

               Margaret Alexander 
                     Johnston
               Daughter of
               Thomas Seddon &
               Juliana W. Alcocke
                    And wife of
               Edward Dudley
                 Johnston
               Born Sept. 19, 1854
               Died April 29, 1938



Stone 2:    No footstone.

               Eleanor Roane Alcocke
                      daughter of
               A. Roane Alcocke and
                 Susan Matthews 
                    Alcocke
                 Born Aug. 25, 1873
                 Died May 23, 1937


Stone 3:       Plain rectangular footstone, 4" high.  W. L. A.

               William Lawrence Alcocke
                         son of 
               Thomas Seddon & Juliana W.
                    Alcocke
               Born Oct. 13, 1850
                    Died 
               February 1, 1916

Stone 4:       Plain rectangular footstone 10" high; W.A.A.

               William Aylett Ashby
                        son of
               John & Emily Buckner
                        Ashby
                     Born 1837
                          Died 
                  March 30, 1908

Stone 5:   Footstone 8" high; E. P. A. 

          Eleanor Pearson Ashby
               daughter of 
          Thomas Seddon &
          Juliana W. Alcocke
                and wife of
          William Aylet Ashby 
          Born Jan. 20, 1848
          Died Sept. 7, 1914

Stone 6:  Footstone 10", rounded top; initials A.R.A.

          ABNER ROANE ALCOCKE
                    SON OF
          THOMAS SEDDON & JULIANA W.
                 ALCOCKE
               BORN JUNE 29, 1844
     `                   DIED
                FEBRUARY 12, 1897
          "The bravest are the tenderest,
            The loving are the daring."


Stone 7:   
Small rounded very mossy stone (child's grave-- only   feet, -- Inches between
headstone and footstone).  Partially sunken, rounded footstone matches headstone. 
Initials O.C.A. half visible above the grass.
          
          In
     Memory of
     OLIVER CABELL
        only Son of
     A.R. & S. M. ALCOCKE
       Born June 27, 1875
        Died Octr. 9, 1880

Stone 8: Matches Stones 1-6 in this row; perhaps the family got a discount for buying
the same style from the same man. They are all in the style of the Gaddess stone yard.   
Rounded 10" footstone; initials S. M. A. 

          SUSAN M. ALCOCKE
                   WIFE OF
          ABNER ROANE ALCOCKE
            AND DAUGHTER OF
          SUSAN KEMPER & OLIVER
               MATTHEWS
               BORN NOV. 26, 1848
                    DIED
               SEPTEMBER 20, 1875  
               "Blessed are the pure in heart:
             for they shall see God."


Stone 9:       Small upright stone, rectangular with curved top.  Horizontal surface of top
very white in contrast to darkened vertical face where the inscription is.  Name is curved
to correspond with the top of the stone; lettering begins about an inch and a half below
top.  Small footstone (4-5") with badly chipped left corner; initials J. W. A.

               JULIA WARRINGTON
                  Infant daughter of
               Wm. A. & E.P. Ashby
                  Departed this life
                   Sept. 30, 1853
               Aged 5 mos. & 15 days




Stone 10:   Rounded, very worn, upright stone.  Decoration on the top face of the stone
not recognizable.  Stone is partially sunken, with only the top two lines below the name
readable now. Like Stone 9, the face is greened with age, and the top of the stone is
whiter. [This is probably also an infant's grave.]  Footstone very worn as well; initials A.
R. A.

          A. Roane Ashby
          Born July 16----
          Died August 4 ----

Stone 11:  Matches the other "adult" headstones in this row.  Name slightly curved.

               JULIANA WARRINGTON
                     WIFE OF
               THOMAS SEDDON ALCOCKE
                        DAUGHTER OF
                      FAYETTE & ELIZA
                      JOHNSTON
                      FREDERICKSBURG
                           BORN MAY 19, 1817
                      DIED AUG. 11, 1867     
                    _____________
                    
                               "UNTIL THE DAYBREAK"         

Stone 12:    This stone is another matching one.  The first two names are slightly
curved, with the surname centered beneath the arch thus formed.  

               THOMAS SEDDON
                    ALCOCKE
               BORN IN STAFFORD CO.
                    APRIL 10, 1817
               DIED SEPT. 3, 1902
                    _________

               FOR FIFTY YEARS VESTRY
               MAN AND WARDEN OF ST.
               STEPHEN'S CHURCH.

Stone 13:        Josephine Mayo
            wife of 
                       Thos. S. Alcocke
            Daughter of
                       Robt. A. & Sarah T.
            Mayo
            "Powhatan Seat"
                       Henrico Co. Va.
                        Died Nov. 11, 1900
             Aged 70 Years
                         She Being Dead,
              Yet Speaketh.

                                           - Thomas Culpeper 

Stone 14:   This stone is slightly different from the others in style.  While the other
stones in this row are on bases, this one is not.  It has been knocked down, and now
leans against Stone 13.  There is no base on it, nor any indication in the cemetery that
there has been one.  Also, unlike the others in this row, the inscription does not begin
with the name of the deceased.  Instead, the first three words are slightly curved to
match the curve of the top of the upright, rectangular stone.  Although this stone is not
situated in its original location, the footstone for it is still in place where it should be;
initials E.S.A.

                    To the memory
                         of
                    ELIZA SEDDON
                          Wife of
                    ABNER ROANE ALCOCKE

Stone 15: Small stone half-buried in the grass.  Last word after Hamilton is obscured.

                In Memory Of
                Margaret W.
                Wife of
                Hamilton (Cooke?)