The Saga of Ira Watson and Nellie Ormsby
Ira C. Watson was the seventh of Nehemiah and Mary Ellen (Lewis) Watson’s twelve children.
Born August 13, 1873 in Rhode Island, Ira Watson moved with his family to Connecticut when he was a boy. Most of his growing-up years probably were spent in Thompson, Connecticut, in the village of North Grosvenor Dale. Ira’s name appears in a city directory for New London, Connecticut, as early as 1892, when he was noted as “boarding” at 45 Willetts Avenue in New London, the same address listed as the home of his father. According to this directory, both Nehemiah and Ira were employees of the Brown Cotton Gin Company.
“Brown Cotton Gin Company” sounds like a place that mills cotton, but in fact it was a shop that made machine parts for cotton gins. Nehemiah and Ira worked as machinists there. Eventually Brown Cotton Gin evolved into the Babcock Printing Press Company, switching from making cotton gin machinery to manufacturing printing press components.
On July 12, 1896, Ira Watson married Nellie Ormsby, who was born probably in Waterford, CT, on April 8, 1878. Per the 1900 census, they lived at 80 Willetts Avenue in New London. Ira and Nellie Watson had three children:
- Gertrude Nellie, born December 1898, died March 2, 1983.
- Charles Lloyd, born August 8, 1902, died April 25, 1981. Lloyd married Irene B. Smith.
- Ethel May, born March 24, 1906, died July 1968. Ethel married (1st) Charles Edward O’Loughlin, Sr. (1896-1951); married (2nd) Martin Noonan (1885-1981)
We would know relatively little about Ira and his family if all we had were vital records and census pages. Thanks to the (now mostly defunct) online Google News Archive Search, we were able to dig up some articles mentioning Ira Watson in the New London, Connecticut, newspaper The Day. In the August 27, 1927 edition, in a column titled “New London 25 Years Ago,” is an item about Ira being injured at work on that same date in 1902:
“Ira Watson, foreman of the repair shop of the Babcock Printing Press company, had his hand and forearm fearfully crushed. He was at work on a press that was to be repaired. The bed was being run and he had his hand on it to ascertain if there was any vibration. Mr. Watson failed to get his hand away quickly enough and it was caught between the bed and the cylinder.”
This accident occurred just weeks after the birth of Ira’s son.
Some years later, Ira and Nellie show up on page 7 of The Day on March 2, 1909: “Nellie Watson of New London claims that Ira C. Watson, her husband, is habitually intemperate and intolerably cruel. Her maiden name was Nellie Ormsby and they were married July 12, 1896. She wants a divorce and the custody of three children.”
We don’t find Ira, Nellie, or their son Lloyd in the 1910 census. Nellie G. Watson, age 11, and Ethel M. Watson, age 4, show up in the village of West Mystic in Groton, Connecticut. They were living in the household of Ira’s sister Ardelia Rawson and her husband Frank. Nehemiah, now a widower, lived there, too. The girls, listed as nieces, clearly are Ira’s and Nellie’s two daughters.
Ira is mentioned in the newspaper four times in 1911.
Page 2 of The Day’s April 3rd edition devoted a sizeable chunk of column to Ira’s troubles. The caption: “WATSON TRIED TO DROWN SORROWS AND HE NEGLECTED TO PROVIDE FOR HIS SON’S CARE.”
“Ira C. Watson was allowed two weeks in which to get a job and begin to contribute something toward the support of his minor son, Lloyd C. Watson, when arraigned before Judge Coit on a charge of non-support this morning. Watson had been out on bond. Judge Coit told Watson he guessed most of his time had been given to drinking rather than looking for work. Watson replied, ‘Not on your tintype.’ The court warned Watson against such talk and said he would send him to jail for contempt if he did not cease. Watson said if it would do any good he would go to jail. Judge Coit said it would not do the child any good but it might do his father some good to go to jail.”
“The complaint in the case was brought by Charles L. Ormsby who said Watson asked him to take the child and he would pay him for the boy’s care. The boy had been for eight weeks without having anything contributed to his support by his father. It developed that Mrs. Watson is seeking a divorce. Watson said he had sold his furniture and been up against it so hard that he could not stand it. He took to drink as the easiest way. He promised to sober up and try to get work.”
Charles L. Ormsby was Nellie Watson’s older brother.
The next item in The Day came on April 17th. “Non-Support Charge Nolled – The charge of non-support of a minor child against Ira C. Watson was nolled [i.e., dismissed] in police court this morning, the case having been continued for two weeks. Watson has a relative caring for the child. Since the case was continued Watson has not been at work and Assistant Prosecuting Attorney Smith warned him that he might be charged with vagrancy if he did not go to work soon.”
On July 26, 1911, The Day published an item about Ira and his two younger brothers Everett and Walter.
“FOR THEFT OF BEER — WALTER WATSON JAILED; HIS BROTHERS DISCHARGED.”
“Jeremiah Twomey reported to Patrolmen J. C. Sullivan and Kiley Wednesday night that a case, containing two dozen bottles of beer, had been stolen from his establishment on Bank street. The policemen went to Ferguson’s wharf where they found Ira, Walter and Everett Watson seated on the case or near it. One of the brothers asked the officers to have a drink but they declined. Walter Watson admitted stealing the beer and said his brother Everett helped him lift it over the fence in the backyard.”
“Walter pleaded guilty and his brothers pleaded not guilty. Judge Coit considered the evidence to convict insufficient and discharged Ira and Everett Watson. He sent Walter to jail for 30 days and fined him $7.”
Ira and Nellie’s divorce became final on Friday, November 10, 1911. An item in the Norwich Bulletin on the following Monday detailed the situation:
“SECURED HER CHILDREN —
Youngest Did Not Know the Mother After Two Years’ Absence”
“Mrs. Nellie Watson of New London, whose decree of divorce was signed by Judge Reed of the superior court on Friday, made claim Saturday for the custody of three children which their father, Ira C. Watson, had in his keeping.”
“Mrs. Watson applied to Prosecuting Attorney Cornin for assistance in securing her children, which the decree gave her. That official detailed Patrolman T. T. Sullivan, instructing him to see that the mandate of the civil court was carried out. The children, 13, 9 and 6 years of age, were taken by Mrs. Watson from a boarding house in Evergreen avenue, New London. The youngest child did not know her mother, not having seen her in two years.”
Nellie not only filed for divorce from Ira in 1909; she left him with the children. Leaving the kids with their father may not have been her first choice, given how few options were available to women back then. This explains Nellie’s apparent absence from the New London census for 1910, as well as why the children were farmed out to relatives.
We notice that the children’s ages were not reported entirely accurately in this newspaper item. Ethel, the youngest who “did not know her mother,” was only five‐and‐a‐half years old by that time, a fact that better illustrates just how young she was (not quite three) when her mother originally filed for divorce.
Ira’s continued problems with alcohol were worth some lines of print in the July 17, 1917 edition of The Day.
“IRA WATSON PAYS FINE FOR INEBRIETY – Ira Watson pleaded guilty to the charge of intoxication in police court this morning. Watson was arrested by Officer Fitzgerald Sunday night. He was brought to the station and released under bond. Monday morning he appeared at the station after court was over. His bond was called. Watson was brought to court this morning by Jeremiah Twoomey [sic] who was his surety. Judge Coit imposed a fine of $10. Watson paid and was let go.”
Jeremiah Twomey was well acquainted with Ira Watson. Mr. Twomey appears in the 1920 census for New London as a 60-year-old Irish immigrant whose occupation was proprietor of a “cafe.” A map of the city of New London, dated 1911, includes a business listing for Jeremiah Twomey, Wholesale Liquor Dealer, located at 52 Bank Street. Ira’s World War I draft registration, dated September 12, 1918, lists Jeremiah Twomey as his employer and 52 Bank Street as his “permanent home address.” For his occupation, Ira wrote “machinist” and then added “teamster” above that. He listed his father as his nearest relative.
After his marriage failed, Ira was listed in New London city directories only sporadically, in various places of residence, his occupation given sometimes as machinist, other times as inspector at BPP Manufacturing – which almost certainly was the Babcock Printing Press company. By the time of the 1920 census, Ira apparently had regrouped with a woman and her two sons. He appears as a resident of Portland, Connecticut, working as a laborer at a tobacco farm. The household included “Catherine L. Watson,” listed as Ira’s wife; and stepsons Frank A. Epps, age 16, and Paul E. Epps, age 13.
We don’t know if Ira got married a second time, or if Laura Katherine “Kate” (Littlefield) Epps was a common-law spouse. She divorced her first husband, John Epps, as described in an item in the January 23, 1914 issue of The Day. Ironically, Kate’s grounds for divorce were the same as Nellie’s: John had a drinking problem. (The date given for the Epps marriage makes one wonder if Kate was a child bride or if she was old enough to be Ira’s mother. Or both.)
By the time of the 1930 census, Ira again is nowhere to be found.
Ira C. Watson died at the age of 70 in the city of New London – at 36 Shapley Street, where he lived – on November 2, 1943. Cause of death was acute cardiac dilatation.
The informant for the death record was his sister, Hattie Tourjee. She gave Ira’s marital status as divorced, from Nellie – no mention of a second wife. She provided Ira’s correct date of birth but gave his birth place as North Grosvenor Dale, CT (wrong) and their father’s place of birth as Voluntown, CT (wrong again). Hattie also said their mother’s birth place was Beach Pond, RI – a nice touch, given that it specifies a locale in the town of Exeter, RI, where Mary Ellen (Lewis) Watson was born. (We’re confident Hattie got that right.)
On November 5, 1943, Ira was buried in the rear left corner of Lot #390, Avenue I, in Jordan Cemetery, Waterford, CT – his father’s twelve-grave lot.
So whatever became of Nellie and her three children with Ira? We assumed she remarried and changed her name, perhaps giving her children the surname of their stepfather. The 1920 and 1930 censuses don’t reveal their whereabouts under the name Watson. For a long time, Nellie’s half of this story dead-ended with the messy divorce items in the newspaper.
Charles L. Ormsby turned out to be the link to finding Nellie and the kids. We’d found him in the 1930 census, living alone as a lighthouse keeper. (Charles was keeper for the Plum Beach lighthouse near North Kingstown, RI.) When Charles died on July 30, 1936, The Day ran his death notice the next day. We pursued the several good clues embedded in this obituary but found no Mrs. Oliver Miller in Providence, Rhode Island, at least not in the 1930 census. But in 1920 there was a woman named Olive Miller, wife of Theodore A. Miller, living in Providence. Besides a baby son, she had three older children named Gertrude N., Lloyd C., and Ethel M. Wilson.
Olive Miller wasn’t Charles Ormsby’s daughter; she was his sister, Nellie, the former Mrs. Ira C. Watson. The data in the 1920 census were a match for Ira Watson’s ex-wife and children.
We put together the pieces of this puzzle using Charles Ormsby’s World War I draft registration and an entry in Ancestry.com’s World Tree Project that is no longer available. The anonymous author of this particular family tree included notes saying that Olive Nellie Ormsby’s first husband, and the father of her three older children, was “C. H. Wilson” (which we know to be incorrect). She had two children (Ted and Frances) with her second husband, Theodore, before he died in 1928.
Charles Ormsby’s WWI draft registration gave the name of his nearest relative as his sister, Mrs. Olive Miller of 66 Beaufort Street in Providence, RI. This means that Nellie had remarried by September 12, 1918, the date on Charles’s draft registration. (The census shows Olive living at this same address.)
The family tree made references to “Aunt Olive” and “Uncle Charles” Ormsby. The dates given for Lloyd are incorrect, but there’s enough family lore in the notes to identify these people. On the page about Charles L. Ormsby, we learned that he was “mustered into Army at Niantic, Conn. July 3, 1898, Company D, Third Connecticut Infantry, in [the] Spanish[-American] War. At this time he was living in New London, Ct. with guardian, Mrs. Ira Watson.”
On the page about Lloyd, we learned that he was an M.D., an army general, and “head of the Selective Service.” Notes include the comment that he was “buried with Uncle-Charles Lay Ormsby under [the] name Pachey.” There was a Frank Pachey included in this family tree but with no discernable connection to Lloyd. (Frank Pachey appears in the census for Waterford, CT.) Lloyd was indeed a physician, and his name shows up in a few things on the Internet indicating that he was involved with the Selective Service in Providence, RI. The items we could find mentioned him as a major and as colonel; apparently he retired at the rank of general.
Lloyd married, had three children (including a son named Robert), enjoyed a long and distinguished career, and died in April 1981 as Lloyd Wilson. (Lloyd Wilson’s Social Security Death Index listing gives exactly the same birth date as that of Charles Lloyd Watson, Ira’s son.)
Olive Nellie Miller passed away in March of 1963, thirty-five years after the death of her second husband Theodore Miller and twenty years after Ira’s passing. She is buried in Jordan Cemetery, Waterford, CT, with Theodore.
Did Nellie actually marry someone named Wilson before she married Theodore Miller? It’s possible; but we think not. Wilson is just a tweaked form of Watson. Changing the A to I and un-crossing the T altered that surname just enough that Ira would have a hard time finding his ex-wife and children. It also preserved the essential structure of the surname Ira’s kids were old enough to know was theirs. That Lloyd, Ira’s only son, chose to keep this altered surname throughout his life suggests the connection with his biological father remained permanently broken.
If Lloyd’s lineal male descendants ever participate in a Wilson surname DNA project, they will hit a brick wall on the Y chromosome analysis, indicative of a “non-paternity event.” That event was the unfortunate saga of Ira and Nellie.
© 2011‐2018 Elaine Schenot
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