I still can't figure out what prompted me to volunteer for
the cemetery project, but I have enjoyed every minute. When I
first volunteered I thought people would come forward with information
on where all these cemeteries were located and give me detailed
directions. I don't know what I was thinking. It can take me two weeks
to locate who may own the property-and then I have to convince the
owner to let me come. I act as professional as I can initially, but
then when I arrive with all my shovels, probes, levers, my outfits and
anxious expressions, you should see their faces.
You have to be in tip-top shape to be able to dig, lift and
do hundreds of leg lunges in one day. In the summer I wear pink striped
cotton pajama pants and a long sleeve cotton shirt-sometimes with a
head band to catch the perspiration. It is not something I am proud to
be seen in - out and about - the mosquitoes are so bad in the heat, I
have to stay covered. I drive a small size vehicle, but the trunk is
"-packed with tools and supplies-a lot of reynolds --wrap. I prefer to
use reynolds wrap for rubbings, as it does not harm the stone, I am
able to take a good picture after the rubbing, as I have I left no
traces of products behind, and it just amazes everyone how the numbers
and letters appear right before your eyes.
I have numerous friends and relatives that go on these
adventures with me. They all love it. My sister , Vicky Kellum, helped
with Moore Cemetery-that was the worst- poison ivy covered the whole
cemetery. That was the last one she helped with during the summer, of
course, it was 95 degrees and she got sick. I think she has forgotten
now that winter is here and will again help when the weather gets warm.
It was not uncommon this past summer to phone my sister when I was out
at a cemetery and ask that she drive 10 miles to help me -of course,
she would drop what she was doing and come. My one friend even donated
a golf cart for me to pull all my equipment and made me a great sign to
place in the cemeteries, to ward off curious neighbors. I have one I
place in my car windowthen no one bothers me or asks questions, when
they see me in my pajamas -digging.
I have one friend, Vera Quehl, who is 70 years old. She is
in better shape than I. At Old Owensville
Cemetery, I had to stop
digging as I needed to rest. I stepped back and started laughing
so· hard, we had dug a section so large I thought we would
be arrested. We unearthed a 5'X 2' headstone-a Carpenter Family stone.
It took all we had down in that hole to turn the stone. As we were
turning it we found another stone farther down, so guess what-we dug
deeper and unearthed another Carpenter Family stone.
The hole was large
enough to place a casket right in it. This one digging took
about 1.5
hours. It made me very nervous
digging so deep as it is located at the
intersection of Rt. 132 and Rt. 276 and cars were backed up (I am sure
watching us) that day. I have a photo, but am reluctant to share
because it may get me in trouble. I also spent a day with Vera at Olive
Branch, it was so cold our fingers hurt, but she insisted we go on. She
has been a tremendous help and a real trooper. I took a video of her
digging and cleaning a stone-we play it every once in a while.
The Samarian, Warren-Light Springer and Citizens
Cemeteries in New Richmond are located on the steepest hills I have
ever seen. At the top is the most beautiful view you will see-if you
can get there. Every time 1 placed my
tote bag down it would roll all
the way down the hill. I was exhausted from chasing it most of the day.
My sister, Vicky helped me with Light-Springer also-she couldn't walk
for a day afterward, from straddling herself on the hillsides.
I have three elementary school friends; (am I blessed?)
Penny, Cathy and Judy who go on
many outings with me. Last winter we
unearthed 20 stones up at Old Calvary Cemetery that were
buried
deep in
the earth. This took us all day. Sometimes it
took three of us to
lift and turn one stone. We
were hitting water about four inches down as we dug and we were covered
from head to toe with wet mud--couldn't even
get in the car-had to remove most of our clothes. It is not uncommon to
spend 1/2 hr. on one stone-digging, turning, replacing the sod and
cleaning it. I kept thinking we were going to catch some disease from
the buried dormant diseases in all that liquid mud.
Santa gave me two great probes (hand made) and a large farmer's lever
for Christmas. He is the best. He doesn't mind me leaving every
Saturday/Sunday for an outing but refuses to even stop along the road
when I say, "stop-look, there's a old cemetery"-in fact I think he
accelerates. He said he has to spend eternity there so why does he want
to hang out there now.
Some property owners will not allow me to unearth buried
stones at all. I ask a lot of questions before I unload all my
equipment. They just believe it is sacred ground and should not be
disturbed. I respect this. Property owners are reluctant to talk with me, initially, as they are neglecting the cemeteries
and think I am there to report and harass them. I really don't care
about the up keep--{That's my next project) I just want pictures to
take home with me.
My mysterious encounters:
Lucy Run-there was definitely someone there with me in the old section,
standing right behind me-constantly on different visits. It was a
distraction. I got tired of turning and looking.
The
orbs (sphere globes thought to be spirits) were
tremendous at Clark private cemetery, along with wild turkeys-I kept
these pictures.
Swope Cemetery-I have an orb picture -when enlarged is an
angel flying-really-no joke.
The saddest part of my adventure is when I find a whole
family of children that die within days or months of one another.
Jordan and McCollum Cemeteries have some of these families. We
sometimes discuss each family and try and determine just what happened
.
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People ask me all the time, "don't you get scared being out there all alone?" I think, alone? I am with all your ancestors.
I have a special form I use for If recording picture numbers and stone
information. I am pretty organized in recording the information and
spend a lot of time typing up the information.
My friends say I have a good sense of where a buried stone
is and can't believe how I find them-it is common sense. If the broken
base is there, I just probe in front and back of the base-you will
usually find the buried stone. Probe deep, as they can be up to 8 inches in the earth. You have to be very
careful as you dig, pull the stone up in the middle not at the top or
bottom end-that way you do not break it. Look at the placement of
stones. If they are lined up in a row, probe between open sections of
this row-you will hit one.
I spend a lot of time driving in circles- up and down roads.
So if you see someone in a black car, mud on the tires, with pajamas
on, a headband and a sign in the back window that says, " Clermont
County Genealogical Society Cemetery Photo Project"-that's me- wave.
I believe our
ancestors are glad we are visiting.
"They say in 100 years you are no longer in anyone's thoughts. This is
incorrect: Today and tomorrow we are reading, recording and
photographing each burial-we are remembering them all-they are in our
thoughts-some of them are 200 years old. "