THE SHORT LIFE OF MARY SUNSHINE
Mary Sunshine wasn't her real
name but the nickname fit like her favorite blue jeans: the perpetual smile, the
laugh that was bigger than she was, the cheerful way she went about living.
Her real name was Mary Elizabeth Katherine VanDyke. She was 26 and led an
ordinary life with a husband, two sons, a job that didn't match the bills and a
beat-up car she hated.
The end of this ordinary life was extraordinarily violent, the urban
nightmare of the `90s suddenly in her face. Three bad teenagers and a stolen
gun. She, alone at a corner pay phone. They wanted her car. She fought them,
unaware that the one police say was 16-year-old Cassie Larron Holness was hiding
a .38-caliber revolver. A bullet ripped through her head. The kids fled as she
lay dying, car keys clutched in her hand, her house within sight down a quiet
Lake Park street. "Because there's so much violence, our hearts tend to A Palm Beach County grand jury on Thursday indicted Holness, a Palm Beach
Gardens High School student who lives in Lake Park with his grandmother, on
first-degree murder charges and decided he should be tried as an adult.
A girl who dated Holness but who did not want to be identified says he told
her that Cassie was short for Casanova. She said he sold drugs but did not use
them. Cassie had been expelled from school for fighting, she said, and has a
mean streak and a bad temper even though he looks rather innocent.
"He's really smart when he wants to be," she says. "Sometimes
it's like he's too smart."
Mary VanDyke's mother says she has no sympathy for the person who killed her
daughter.
TREASURING THE MEMORIES
"I'd like to say to Palm Beach County: Please remember her and don't let
the perpetrator of this crime go free or spend time in jail to be turned loose
in seven years because she won't be loose in seven years," Wilson says.
"She won't ever be back. She doesn't have any tomorrows left. We have only
yesterdays."
So she treasures the last Valentine card, the old photographs, the last phone
call, the last `I love you.' She mines her memories for mental pictures and
comes up with her 5-foot-2, tomboy teenager in high heels for the first time,
walking like she had on cowboy boots; her fifth-grader starring in the school
play, delighting in her role as a little old lady; her cooing, beautiful baby
who was always happy and the envy of all the other mothers in Petaluma, Calif.
"She was all about life and full of it," says Wilson.
When Mary was still a baby, the family, including a brother and a half
brother, moved to Maryland and eventually to Winter Haven in central Florida.
She was a cheerleader for the Auburndale Cowboys, a football team sponsored by
the parks department, and a member of the track team at her junior high school.
She grew up like one of the boys in the neighborhood, playing rough, wearing
jeans and never acting like a sissy ol' girl. Friends were easy for Mary
Sunshine. She always had lots of them. Her mother bought Mary her own phone line
but it wasn't unusual to find her using both phones at the same time.
The family moved to Palm Beach County and Mary enrolled as a sophomore at
Jupiter High School and took a part-time job as a cashier at the Winn-Dixie in
Jupiter.
A COUNTRY MUSIC FAN
She was 15 when she met John Grega Jr., a senior at Twin Lakes High School.
It was love and wouldn't wait: the bride was 16, the groom 18 on May 30, 1981.
Some 18 months later, John Grega III was born and Mary never finished school.
They lived in Stuart for two years while John worked for his father's electrical
supply company and Mary worked as a teller at Florida National Bank. They had
their problems. In 1986, they divorced. "We really got married too
young," John says.
The next year she married Don VanDyke, a sheet metal worker from Lake Park,
and took a new job with Tire Kingdom's distribution center and corporate offices
in Riviera Beach.
Raleigh Ford took a lot of teasing from the guys at work. How, they asked
time and again, could he get any work done when the prettiest woman in the
building shared an office with him? Raleigh was her boss and her buddy. She
invited him over to her mother's for Thanksgiving dinner and he helped Helen in
the kitchen until Mary and Don came in hours late from The Woods, the spot off
U.S. 441 where people four-wheel through the mud every Sunday.
Mary liked the country music Raleigh played on his office radio and even now
when he flips to the Pirelli price sheet on his desk he sees her scribbled
notation: "Garth No. 1." She was a huge Garth Brooks fan, wore cowhide
boots, spoke with a redneck accent, loved her cowboy hat and even had a belt
with her name chiseled on the back.
HAUNTED BY HER DEATH
Helen Wilson called Raleigh the night Mary was shot, and on his drive to work
the next morning he hoped Helen's call was a bad dream and that Mary would be
there like always. When he saw sad faces milling around the front of the
building he knew it was true. All day when Mary's phone rang-- people in their
tire stores around the state, people across the country at the tire companies
they ordered from-- Raleigh had to find the words to tell them why Mary wasn't
there.
"The violence of what happened is a bigger crusher than anything
else," he says. "Everyone here was in a daze. I don't think anyone got
any work done that day."
Leslie Jones fingers the gold half-heart and swears it'll never come off the
chain around her neck. Mary was wearing the other half of the heart the night
she was killed. They were best friends; the heart was tangible proof. So is the
pink carnation each friend pulled from her casket spray after the funeral.
"She was a beautiful person," says Leslie, who worked across the
hall from Mary.
"Inside and out," says Tammie Boylan, a friend who worked next door
from Tire Kingdom's corporate offices and distribution center in Riviera Beach.
Mary's death still haunts them: one is afraid of the dark, another is afraid
of being alone. "I couldn't sleep at all Thursday night," says Cathy
Hafner, another of Mary's friends at Tire Kingdom. "I heard every car that
went by. Every noise."
"It makes you realize no one is untouchable," Tammie says.
NOT AFRAID OF ANYONE
Not even a spunky woman who, her friends say, was afraid of no one.
For a few months, before her second son, Marty, was born more than three
years ago, Mary and Don took karate lessons. Her mother says she was not an
expert and the color of her belt was barely above novice.
Her mother doubts Mary tried to take on the three teenagers with her karate
moves but she was always a fighter, Helen Wilson says, remembering the time she
decked her oldest brother. "She was not one to let you take anything from
her, though she'd give you anything you wanted if she knew you needed it."
Mary was older than her girlfriends and she advised them in matters of the
heart: "Dump him," she'd say. "Ya gotta get strong." They
always went out together on Tuesday and Sunday nights for free country dance
lessons at Honky Tonks in West Palm Beach.
Earlier this winter, Mary lost control of her Hyundai and flipped the car
with her friends inside. No one was hurt and everyone told them they were lucky
to be alive. Don knocked some of the worst dents out and she continued to drive
the car although every day she wished it could somehow turn into the
four-wheel-drive pickup she dreamed of owning. They called her Crash VanDyke for
weeks.
Don watched the kids when Mary was out and she wore a beeper so anyone could
find her if they needed her. Her girlfriends saw Mary as someone trying to have
some of the fun she missed when she took on responsibilities of motherhood and
marriage so young.
They say Mary and Don had trouble paying all their bills and that their phone
had been cut off sometime before the night Mary was shot when she went out to
call someone who had beeped her.
`MANY LIVES WERE CHANGED'
Her brother John was at the house that night and heard the gunshot. He could
see her car door was open. It looked like she was sitting there listening to
music. Overcome by a bad feeling, he went for a gun and walked the short block
to find his sister on the ground.
He won't talk publicly anymore about what happened. Their mother says he
blames himself, thinks he should have gone with her to the phone, somehow
protected her. Don VanDyke also has secluded himself, his mother, Nancy, says.
Mary's ex-husband was called the night of the shooting and spent most of the
night at the VanDyke house.
He went home to shower and returned so he would be there when his son John,
9, awoke that morning and had to be told what had happened while he was asleep.
He stayed out of school a week, couldn't sleep for a couple of nights and is now
living with his father and attending a new school.
Marty, 3, clings to his grandmother, VanDyke and other close family members
as though he is afraid that they too will leave and not come home. Mommy is in
heaven, Marty sometimes says. No she's not, she's at work, he'll occasionally
say, leaving grandmother the hard job of helping him understand death and
keeping his mother's memory alive.
"In one short moment many lives were changed-- some for the better, some
for worse," Mary's mother says. "I don't know what the `better' things
are but I'm an optimist and I must look for the good in everything that happens.
Maybe it's the unity of the community. Maybe the community will finally do
something about the crime.
"The `worse' part was that I lost my daughter and my grandchildren lost
their mother and they'll never recover that. All the people's lives she touched,
they'll never forget her. I hope that by passing through their lives she has
made it better that way."
Tire Kingdom has created a trust fund for John Grega III and Marty VanDyke,
Mary VanDyke's children. Donations can be made to Tire Kingdom, 2001 N. Congress
Ave., Riviera Beach, Fla. 33404. Checks should be made payable to Mary VanDyke
Children's Trust Fund. ' I want her life to have counted for something in some small way,' says
Mary's mother, Helen Wilson.
Reprinted with permission.