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Family of Thomas + of MERLE and Melisende + of MONTLHERY

Husband: Thomas + of MERLE (1073-1130)
Wife: Melisende + of MONTLHERY (1055-1147)
Children: Enguerrand II + of COUCY (1110-1148)
Melisende + of COUCY (1120-1148)
Robert (c. 1122- )
Mathilde of COUCY (c. 1124- )

Husband: Thomas + of MERLE

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Thomas + of MERLE

Name: Thomas + of MERLE
Sex: Male
Father: Enguerrand I + (1042-1116)
Mother: Adele + of MARLE (1054- )
Birth 1073 Boves, Somme, France
Occupation Lord of Coucy
Death 1130 (age 56-57) Amiens, Somme, Picardie, France

Wife: Melisende + of MONTLHERY

Name: Melisende + of MONTLHERY
Sex: Female
Father: Guy II + (1017-1108)
Mother: Adelaide + of CRECY (1048-1104)
Birth 1055 Crecy, Ardennes, Champagne, France
Death 1147 (age 91-92)

Child 1: Enguerrand II + of COUCY

Name: Enguerrand II + of COUCY
Sex: Male
Spouse: Agnes + of BEAUGENCY (1112- )
Birth 1110 Boves, Somme, France
Death 1148 (age 37-38) Palestine

Child 2: Melisende + of COUCY

Name: Melisende + of COUCY
Sex: Female
Spouse: Hugh V + of GOURNAY (1098-1180)
Birth 1120 Crecy, Ardennes, Champagne, France
Death 1148 (age 27-28) Caiston, Norfolk, England

Child 3: Robert

Name: Robert
Sex: Male
Birth 1122 (est)

Child 4: Mathilde of COUCY

Name: Mathilde of COUCY
Sex: Female
Birth 1124 (est)

Note on Husband: Thomas + of MERLE

Thomas de Marle (1078–1130), the son of Enguerrand I and his repudiated wife, Adele de Marle, became the second of the Lords of Coucy.

 

He is described as a "raging wolf" (abbot Suger of St. Denis) and fought against his father, whom he hated. Nevertheless, they both participated in the first crusade. Legend has it that as they in a party of six and without armor were surprised by a band of Muslim warriors, they shredded their cloak trimmed with squirrel fur (vair) into six pieces for banners and slew the attackers. This event is commemorated in their coat-of-arms that shows "barry of six, vair and gules".

 

In 1116 he succeeded his father as Lord of Coucy. He was violent and lawless and caused trouble for the Church (he was excommunicated at one time), the king, and the towns. In the end, he made donations to the Church and died in bed in 1130. His rule was succeeded by his son Enguerrand II.

 

Marle was described by church officials at the time as excessively brutal. Both Abbot Suger of St. Denis and Guibert of Nogent attested to this brutality noting how Marle hung prisoners up by their testicles and were thus torn off by their own body weight.[1][2][3][4] Guibert wrote:

 

So unheard-of in our times was his cruelty that men who are considered cruel seem more humane in killing cattle than he in killing men. For he did not merely kill them outright with the sword and for definite offenses, as is usual, but by butchery after horrible tortures. When he was compelling prisoners of any condition to ransom themselves, he hung them up by their testicles, and as these often tore off from the weight of the body, the vitals soon burst out. Sometimes he did this with his own hands. Others were suspended by their thumbs or by the male organ itself, and were weighted down with a stone placed on their shoulders. He himself walked below them, and when he could not extort from them what they did not have, he beat them madly with cudgels until they promised what satisfied him, or perished under this punishment.[5]

 

Ecclesiastical scholars have since disputed these descriptions on account of how the Coucys had rebelled against the archbishop whom had granted them land and subsequently attacked nearby churches. [6][7]

 

[edit] FamilyThomas married as his first wife Ida of Hainaut, daughter of Baldwin II, Count of Hainaut and Ida de Louvain Thomas & his first wife had two children[8]:

 

Ida (Basilia) de Coucy . Married 1) Alard III de Chimay and 2) Bernard d'Orbais, son of Siger d´Orbais [9]

Beatrix de Coucy married Evrard III de Breteuil, son of Valeran II Sire de Breteuil. [9]

He took as his wife Melisende de Crécy, daughter of Guy de Crécy. Thomas and Melisende had four children[8]:

 

Enguerrand II Lord of Coucy and Marle. [9]

Robert Lord of Boves (died at Acre in 1191) married Beatrix de Saint-Pol, daughter of Hugo III, count of Saint-Pol and his second wife Marguerite de Clermont. [9]

Melisende de Coucy married 1) Adelme Châtelain d´Amiens, son of Adam Châtelain d´Amiens and 2) Hugh IV de Gournay, son of Gerard de Gournay and Edith de Warenne. [9]

Mathilde de Coucy married Guy Châtelain d´Amiens, son of Adam Châtelain d´Amiens. [10]