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When my old friend, Mr. Pray, heard that I was to teach under Mr. Salisbury, he, knowing us both,
wrote me a letter from which I quote a paragraph.
The letter is dated August 30, 1909, and was written at Lewiston, Pennsylvania. It may be
remembered that after Mr. Pray suffered the unprecedented
injustice of being turned out of the presidency of the Stevens Point Normal School, as told in
Chapter XII, he became a traveling salesman for a tea
and coffee house, his field being that of educational institutions in eastern states, a business in
which the money appreciation, as is often the case,
exceeded that accorded his educational endeavor. The paragraph reads:
You and Mr. Salisbury are two of my best and most loyal friends, and I very much want you to like
each other. His is a rugged personality, often
rough and harsh, never purposely unkind. Very direct and to the point, he tramples flower beds,
metaphorically, where he would never think of doing
so literally. He will never say worse of you than to you. and you don't have to study deeply into
his utterances to know what he thinks. He would be
more nearly esteemed as he deserves, if he thot more about putting the best foot forward; but his
oldest friends are his best and that tells you a good
deal. By the end of the year you will have things in better perspective.
[Signed] T. B. Pray
This is a good characterization by one who had worked with Mr. Salisbury for many years, and seems
to meet my needs here, better than anything
that might be said. I had never known Mr. Salisbury intimately. Everybody in Wisconsin who had
attended state conventions had heard his eloquent
plea for the cause of the feeble-minded, knew of the long, persistent fight he had set up for these
unfortunates; and that the Home for the
Feeble-Minded at Chippewa was due to his efforts more than to those of any other person. But I rather dreaded him, remembering
that he had once in a convention drawn attention to
"a woman in the Kenosha high school" who was recommending graduates to go to Oshkosh when there was
a normal school nearer by to which that
section owed allegiance. Once at Stevens Point soon after my promotion to the place of supervisor
of practice there, he had asked me how I had come
without a degree to the position I was holding. The bluntness and aggressiveness of his question
stung me like an insult, and he was promptly referred
to Mr. Pray for his answer. So I was really surprised at Denver to be asked to take a position in
his school, and my feelings toward him caused
considerable hesitation before accepting.
I shall never forget the morning of my arrival at Whitewater. Mr. Salisbury had at that time
acquired an automobile and met me at the station to convey
me to his home, where I would stay until I found a boarding place. The automobile was one of the
buggy sort--one in which although the shafts for
the horse were lacking, other ancestral traces quite as useless were retained. There was the
regular old dashboard, lacking only the socket for the
whipstock. I mounted and sat in the regular buggy seat with the driver, who took hold of the handle
at the end of an iron rod bending upward from the
floor, touched something with his foot and off we started. Mrs. Salisbury proved very congenial,
and friendly relations with her were immediately
established.
About my work in Whitewater, little need be said. It was the same sort of position as that held at
Stevens Point--supervision of the Practice School,
with a daily class of students in the subject of elementary methods.
Miss Grace Potter, primary; Miss May Kay, intermediate, and Miss Nettie Sayles, grammar grades,
were my immediate associates. I came into very
pleasant relations with the faculty, several of whom I had known before, and two of whom were Stevens Point graduates of my
day.
I heard frequent comments from the older members of the faculty about the change that had come over
Mr. Salisbury. A year or two before, he had
been sent on some sort of an educational commission to England. Upon his return he had introduced a
surprising innovation into faculty meetings.
We assembled at scheduled time--once in two weeks, if I remember rightly, and the program began
with the serving of tea and crackers or cakes,
different committees of the faculty successively taking charge of this delightful social feature of
the occasion. It is easy to imagine what a really nice
thing that was. Relaxation came after the strain of the day's teaching, pleasant conversation and
social contact dispelled the teachery attitude, and after
the rest of a half hour, we were in a better mood to hear the business of the day.
There was another thing that bespoke the liberation of his soul from the formalism of his old
ideals, the expression perhaps of a long repressed desire.
He learned to manipulate a player piano and to do it with a fine appreciation of the feeling to be
expressed, which even a careful following of the
interpretative instructions does not alone enable one to do. I remember a social evening at the
president's home when he contributed much to our
entertainment by his playing of good music.
This was the year in which State Superintendent Cary asked me to revise the reading work of the
Manual of the Course of Study for Common
Schools, written at Stevens Point in 1906. Not an hour of school time was allowed for this piece of
service for the state, and again it had to be done
evenings after busy days. It cost me needed time for sleep. I got nothing for it--even the
privilege of paying for the typing was not denied me--and I
should have been allowed time for it. It was known to have occurred that people writing books from which personal benefit
was expected, took school time for it. Women have
much to learn from men in these matters! But I lived through it, and have I not just found this
compensatory note of appreciation from Mr. Cary dated
March 18, 1910? It says:
We are under great obligation to you for the work you have put on this outline in reading. I have
not yet had an opportunity to look it over, but
knowing as I do how successful the first outline was, I am prepared to believe that this will be
even more successful.
In the spring of 1910, a letter was received from a member of the school board of Kenosha saying
that there would be a vacancy in the
superintendency there and asking me to apply for the position. This I did, and received an
acknowledgment from G. H. Curtis, president of the school
board, dated April 20, 1910. When in Milwaukee that week, Mr. Salisbury heard about it, and called
me in or an interview. This is the gist of the talk
that ensued: "I heard in Milwaukee yesterday that you are an applicant for the superintendency of
the Kenosha schools. Is it true?" I answered that it
was. Whereupon his nostrils dilated as was their wont when he became excited, and he told me that I
was foolish to think that I could manage such a
job. Superintendencies were for men--not women. A woman couldn't do it! He acknowledged that I had
made something of a reputation in Wisconsin,
and now I would "spoil it all by a failure at the end." He would try to get my wages raised if I
would remain at Whitewater. I recalled that he had
promised the same thing in Denver. Then he bluntly asked, "How much will you get at Kenosha?" I
said, "Probably $2,000." He abruptly turned his
desk and by an impatient gesture and with an air of utter disgust indicated to me that the
interview was at an end.
Let us look for a moment at some of the influences that affected this very unusual act of the
Kenosha school board.
I was well known in Kenosha. There were two men on the school board who had been pupils of mine in
the high school years before, and another's
wife had been at one time a pupil of mine. Mrs. Ella Flagg Young was then the superintendent of the
Chicago schools, and this had lodged the idea
that a woman could do it.
A telegram from Kenosha called me for a Sunday interview with the Teachers' Committee and I went. I
well remember the general purport of the
conversation and that in the course of it I had reminded the members that times had greatly changed
since I had left Kenosha, sixteen years before.
That then the school board ran the schools, but that now specialists had come into the field, whom
the school boards hired as their executives, while
they attended to the administrative end of things; that three important special duties belonged to
these executives--the notice of teachers, the selection
of textbooks, and the formulation of the course of study, all of which duties a properly qualified
superintendent would do, and with only the best
interests of the schools in view. Of course, I was not anticipating trouble about the second and
third of the prerogatives named, but felt pretty strongly
about the first, having heard that my predecessor had not always had his say about the selection of
teachers.
Having been "called" to the position, and not being anxious to leave the normal school field, I met
the committee, feeling sufficiently independent to
lay down the conditions upon which I would accept: (1) That I should receive the same salary that
they expected to pay a man. (There were about fifty
candidates in the field); (2) That the selection of teachers should be an undisturbed prerogative,
for the execution of which my long experience in
training school work had qualified me; (3) That Kenosha children should have teachers with normal
school training or the equivalent.
There was strong opposition to the last named condition. My argument for it that counted most was
this: Kenosha had for years been paying taxes to support normal schools to train teachers for other cities,
towns, and villages, and had received little in return. Their
own children were in charge of untrained high school graduates or those of less scholarship. I
named little crossroad towns in the woods of northern
Wisconsin that for years had had nothing but the trained teachers whom Kenosha had helped to
prepare for their work.
The official notice came under date of May 11, telling me that I had been unanimously elected the
superintendent of schools of Kenosha for one year.
The same letter announced the resignation of P. J. Zimmers, to take effect June 1, two weeks before
the close of the school. This resignation had been
expected, but not his sudden leave-taking. Another resignation at that meeting was a surprise and
much regretted. It was that of W. J. Hocking,
principal of the high school since 1904, about whose work I had received most favorable reports.
And that's how I came to go back to Kenosha as the superintendent of schools. I regarded it as a
great opportunity to do two things which I
determined to work for: to improve the school system of my native city, and to demonstrate that a
woman could do it. The death of Mr. Salisbury
occurred June 2, 1911, when the proof had only begun. How I succeeded is another story. It is
sufficient to say now that I was able to ward off or
evade the "shafts and arrows of outrageous fortune"--at least fatal ones--for the period of eleven
years.
I am glad to make the following correction of a mistake made on page 306 about the architect of the
Stout Institute Building, Menomonie, Wisconsin.
It is based on information received from Dr. Robt. L. Charles, of Denver, Colorado, under date of
Aug. 20, 1932.--M.D.B.
"My father, John Charles .... was the architect of the first manual training building which was
destroyed by fire, and of the second (present) one, and
also of the present high school building."
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