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Burwell Tribune March 28,1963

FUNERAL SERVICES FOR MRS GRACE DEARMONT CONDUCTED MARCH 25

Funeral services for the late Mrs Grace Dearmont, were conducted on Monday afternoon, March 25th from the Methodist Church in Burwell, Nebraska. The Rev A J Hindmand officiated. The selections, "Going Down the Valley" and "The Old Rugged Cross" were sung by Louise Lakin, Dorene Goehring, Sally Edghill, accompanist. Pall bearers were Lloyd Dearmont, Dean Heck, Gene Dearmont, Wayne Heck, Jack Conner, Garney Heck, Interment was made in Cottonwood Cemetery, Burwell, Nebraska.

Grace Heck, daughter of John and Mary Heck, was born April 20,1892 at Mound City, Mo, and departed this life March 23,1963. At the age of 70 years, 11 months and 3 days.

Her childhood was spent around Mound City, where she attended Dale Center School. In her young life she united with the Pleasant View Church, and after moving to Burwell she became a member of the Methodist Church. She was an active member of the WSCS.

On July 3,1917, she was united in marriage to Gerald Lee Dearmont. To this union nine children were born. They made their home near Rea, Mo until the spring of 1927. She moved with her husband and five of the nine children to a farm in the northwest corner of Valley County, where they lived until they moved to Burwell in 1949.

She leaves to mourn her passing, her husband, Gerald; five sons, John L of Rose, Nebr, Nelson , Robert, Charles of Burwell, Alvin of Lincoln; four daughters, Helen Fischer, Viletha Graham, Ruby Percell of Burwell, and Iva Everhart of Hallam, Nebr. 19 grandchildren, two sisters, Effie Dearmont of Mound City, Mo and Ruth Conner of Smithville, Mo; three brothers , Clarence, Frank and Marvin Heck of Mound City ,Mo and many relatives and friends.

She was preceded in death by her mother and father, five brothers and sisters. She was a kind and loving mother, and will be missed by all who knew her. She devoted her life to her family and her church. She received great pleasure in growing and caring for her flowers.

Burwell Tribune Reading, Writing and Rhythm by Mrs Hazel Mattern

This is a story about Gerald L Dearmont, who has spent 50 years of his life in or near Burwell, and how it all began.

He was born in Missouri, Sept 6,1896, and at a very early age met Grace Heck, whom he courted for a long 4 years before she consented to become his wife.

He now smiles coyly, as he admits he knew he wanted to marry her after the first 6 months but she thought he had some growing up to do and recalls he must have proposed at least a thousand times. She had a deep religious faith, so in order to improve his chances, he became a member of her church.

Finally, came the letter from Grace, saying yes. But Gerald was still only 19, and needed his mother’s approval and signature so that they could get married. Thus, on July 3,1917 at Craig, Mo, this was accomplished and the ceremony was performed by a preacher holding a revival meeting since the one they had wanted found it necessary to take his sick wife to St Joseph.

In 1923 G L ‘s Brother had made a trip to Burwell, driving a new Star automobile, and he had come along to see the country. Their mother’s relative had a bank in Iowa who held a mortgage on a Garfield County farm, so they had come hoping to do some business or make a trade. He liked what he saw here, so in 1927 he boarded an emigrant train, loaded with Jacks and jennies and came to Burwell, a 4 day trip. He arrived here just after the elevator had burned to the ground, and the ashes were still smoldering.

Mrs Dearmont and their 5 children had remained at home in Rae, Mo, and had their tickets bought to join him as soon as he found a home. 2 weeks later, they came, John, Nelson, Helen, Alvin, and Viletha, with their mother, to locate southwest of Burwell on what was then known as the Seaman place.

The house had been used to store corn, so it took some work to get in order for a family to live in. They lived there for 2 years while he worked for Carl Treptow, and rode horseback back and forth each day. GL broke stallions to drive to a spring wagon, so in 1928, he returned back to the old home at Rae, Mo, and drove back a team, the trip taking him 14 days. He recalls he came through Lincoln, on gravel all the way, and had to stop only twice to shoe his horses.

The family then moved to Valley County and lived on the Joe Stupka farm for the next 17 years. Ruby, Iva and Charles were born and as the family grew, they learned to work and each to accept his or her own responsibility. 

G L says Grace raised the family, and she taught them well. He recalls that when the family sat down to supper, he always read to them, or mother would take her turn while he ate, their favorites being the Saturday Evening Post, the local newspaper or a library book. He is still an avid reader, as one can see by the large collection he has, he tells me he has read all of Zane Grey’s books in the Burwell Library. The old books are the best, he says.

I asked him how he managed through the Hard Times of the thirties, and he smiles and replies, I got along good. He managed to buy some good sized pigs for a quarter a piece, and sold them later at a good profit. During one drought year he went out to Scottsbluff to pick up potatoes and when returned home he brought back a supply for his family, some dry beans, and enough cabbage to fill a 55 gallon barrel of saurkraut.

Later he went to Mo to shuck corn for his brother, worked previously for a cattle feeder, helped with whatever he could find to help earn what he could while the family kept things going at home.

In 1948 they moved to town, and the boys took over the place, G L boasts of his first new tractor, purchased during the War, soon after Nelson went to the Army. It was an International with agriculture lug and bright yellow painted steel wheels.

As you sit in his living room of his home here in town, it is very evident that this man likes horses, for there are pictures of them everywhere. He tells me that he used to purchase horses for Art Watson at the Packing Plant in North Platte, and in his lifetime, has owned over 25,000 horses.

For a period of 5 years, he had 1000 head, and was always aiming for the figure 1100 but instead, kept decreasing. At the present time he still has 78,and just recently, at this years rodeo, sold one to a clown.

He also has made himself a record holder in attending every one of Nebraska’s Big Rodeos, and in the 2 years they were not held during the war, they held 5 free ones out in the country, and I think it should be mentioned that he said he never picked up a beer can afterwards.

He says horses were entertainment for his children, and they had one special one they could count on to buck if any of them felt an urge to cowboy. Today, if he wants to call his horses, he will whistle, and they respond to it, just as he used to do when the children were small and he wanted their attention.

In this years Rodeo parade, G L couldn’t resist the urge to hitch up a team to his wagon Friday and loaded up his sister, visiting here from St Louis, a cousin and a few great grandchildren and they were off and driving. And I wonder which of them were enjoying it the most?

The truck he used as a business from 1948 until about 3 years ago, when he decided it was time to retire, He says, he had never had an accident and he wanted to quit before he did.

But that doesn’t mean he doesn’t find something to do, when I talked to him, he had been tearing down a small house, near where he lives, and admitted he didn’t remember when he had been more tired. He has most of his family nearby and enjoys the visits of his children and grandchildren and as he sits in his comfortable easy chair, he can look to the wall and see a large picture of Grace smiling and he is not alone.

50 years of life make quite a mark on the pages of time, and he has lived and enjoyed every bit of it, and as you drive by at night you are most likely to see him still reading when others are asleep. He keeps busy, his mind occupied, and he is content and when he gets restless there is still the horses and the truck parked outside. Life is good.


 
 
 
NORMA DEARMONT

St Paul—Norma Jean Dearmont 71, of St Paul, died Sunday, July 15,2001 at her home following a battle with cancer.

Services will be at 10 am Wednesday at Peters Funeral Home in St Paul. The Rev Gary Karoly will officiate. Burial will be at 1:30 pm at the Cottonwood Cemetery in Burwell with the Rev Rolly Salts officiating.

Visitation will be from 7 to 9 pm Tuesday at the funeral home.

Memorials are suggested to Southview Christian Church in Lincoln.

Mrs Dearmont was born on Jan 14,1930 at McCook to Gilbert Henry and Millie M (Roberts) Houghtelling. She grew up and attended school in McCook where she graduated from McCook High School in 1949.

She married Alvin W Dearmont on June 17,1949 at McCook. The couple lived in various western and central Nebraska towns before moving to Lincoln in 1956. The permanent home in Lincoln allowed Norma to be involved in church activities as well as Cub Scouts, Girl Scouts, Salt Creek Wranglers, Antelope Rangers and other horse clubs. In 1976 the family moved to their present home in St Paul.

She was a member of Southview Christian Church of Lincoln. She enjoyed gardening, flowers, crafts and playing cards. She also had interests in 4-H horse clubs.

Survivors include her husband, three sons and daughters in law, Virgil and Jackie Dearmont of Lincoln, Don and Tracie Dearmont of St Paul, Andy and Suzie Dearmont of Lincoln. Two daughters and sons-in-law, Peg and Kim Moeller of Lincoln and Nina and Mark Horman of Gretna. 13 grandchildren, and a brother and sister-in-law, Gene and Devona Houghtelling of McCook.

She was preceded in death by three sisters, Elda Ohlson, Ellen Roberts and Myrtel Houghtelling and two brothers, Charles and Milt Houghtelling.