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Burton Courtright( b. March 15, 1814 - d. 1888
m. Lucy Ann Larned) Courtesy Larry L. Kimmel,
Dr. Joel R. Gore and Ursula Gore Cleaver.
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Ancestral chart of Henry Courtright, father of Burton.


The following letter was written by Lawrence Kortright (bap. 1728) to General George Washington. He is looking for help settling a claim for the sloop, "Hester." Also included is George Washington's reply. Submitted by Jennifer Hill, a Courtright researcher. These images were found on the Library of Congress "American Memory" section.

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Calvin and Sarah Courtright
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Calvin Whitfield Courtright & Sarah Eliza Albach-Married December 5, 1861

SARAH COURTRIGHT'S DIARY

1866

FOREWORD

Sarah Eliza Albach was born in a cabin on the banks of the Des Moines River in Iowa on May 25, 1843. She died in Oakland, California on December 12, 1931. Her parents were Sophia Burlingame and author-historian James R. Albach, both originally from the East Coast, who spent their last years in Oxford, Ohio, and are buried there. Sarah and her two sisters attended The Female Institute in Oxford. A brother, Cowper, died in infancy and, though another brother, James, is listed in the 1860 Census; we have no other record of him.

Calvin Whitfield Courtright was born on November 15, 1839 in Bloom Township Fairfield County, Ohio. His parents, John Jacob Courtright and Margaret Crist, were farmers. Calvin was apparently the only one of at least 13 offspring who went to college. He graduated from Miami University, Oxford, Ohio, in 1863 and Princeton Theological Seminary in Princeton, New Jersey in 1868. He was an ordained Presbyterian minister who served the church all his life, mostly in very small towns. He was an avid vegetable gardener, and briefly, a school superintendent. Calvin died in Oakland, California on December 17, 1929.

Calvin and Sarah met in Oxford when he was enrolled in Miami University and she in the Female Institute. They married in 1861, when she was 18 and he was 22. They bore one child in Oxford, Mary Estella, in 1862. Katherine, or Kittie in this diary, was born in 1863 in Brookville, Indiana after Calvin's graduation from Miami; she and her older sister were named for Sarah's sisters, Mary and Kittie. Their infant brother, John Calvin, was born in Princeton, New Jersey in 1865, and at the beginning of this diary fragment Sarah was already four months pregnant with her fourth child, Sadie. Sadie later died a tragic death at the age of eight at Meigs Creek, Ohio. Sarah and Calvin lost two more babies: Nellie, who died of cholera, and Clara. Eleven of their 15 offspring survived to adulthood.

This diary was written over a period of 65 days in June, July, and August of 1866 when Calvin was enrolled in the Theological Seminary and the family was living on Canal Street in Princeton. The diary was passed to Sarah's daughter, Kittie Louise Courtright Simonds, who in turn gave it to her daughter, Katherine Simonds Wensberg. Katherine, my mother, left the diary and photos of her mother's family in my care. When I discovered that Sarah's handwriting was fading, transcribed it.In the process, I became curious enough about the Courtright family to delve into its history and genealogy.

There is so much information about their way of life contained in every entry that it seemed important to share Sarah's diary with her descendants. Written, as it was, only a few months after the end of the Civil War, it is a great family document with the power to teach us all about whom our ancestors really were.

With the help of several historians and a visit to the street where they lived in 1866, I made illustrations from four of the entries. I've included two photos of Sarah and Calvin from the beginning and the end of their life together. Thanks to the Simonds sisters, there is quite a lot of information saved about Calvin and Sarah, but it is through Sarah's own words that we may find her character. I have edited some of the spelling, and supplied an occasional word in brackets as delicately as possible to preserve Sarah's simple, strong voice.

Eleanor K. Pelcyger,
Christmas, 2001

June, Saturday, 9, 1866.

Sunday, 10.
Attended divine service twice today. Had communion in the morning. Three persons were united to the church. The sermon was delivered by Dr. MacDonald. Dr. Kirk of Boston preached in the evening. He had a most excellent sermon. His text was taken from the 103rd Psalm, 5th Verse, "Who satisfieth thy mouth with good things; so that thy youth is renewed like the eagles." One of his main points was that if we would strive to be more contented with the lot that Go has assigned us, our lives would be prolonged. Another idea was to think that there is one God over all and he is never disturbed by anything.

Monday, 11.

We arose early as we had some extra work to perform. Mr. Courtright left us this afternoon. I felt very lonely after he was gone. Sat down and commenced writing a letter to sister Mary, but as my letters to her are lengthy did not finish it. Called on Mrs. B and then went to mail but did not receive any letters. When I came home it was dark. We then had tea. The children were very much worried because their "Papa" had not come. Stella does talk so strangely sometimes. Today when I was having some sport with the boy, she reminded me that God was looking at me and would not love me if I teased the baby. Kittie was very anxious for me to write to Papa that she was trying to be good.

June, Tuesday, 12, 1866.

Was quite busy this morning ironing. The two Miss Merrills called in the afternoon. They enquired of sister Mary and altogether it was quite a pleasant call. When the children awoke I took them out to walk. They enjoy being out very much. I must try and have them take a walk every day. They are very anxious for their Papa to return-say that they will try to be good girls. The time passes very slowly now, especially the evenings. I am reading one of Irving's works but it does not interest me much yet. Am endeavoring to read my Bible faithfully morning and evening. I am now reading in the Psalms. How well adapted they are to everyone. It is strange to me how anyone can believe that the Bible is not inspired.

Wednesday, 13.

Was writing this morning. I finished a letter to Mr. Courtright and one to sister Mary. Was very much disappointed in not hearing from Mr. Courtright. Received a letter in the morning from sister Mary. It is one of those kind, affectionate letters that she always writes. I look forward every week to her letters with much pleasure. Had a letter from sister Kittie this evening. She does write such a beautiful letter. It is quite a treat to hear from her as she writes so seldom. But I must excuse her as her mind is taken up at present with, to her, more pleasant and important affairs. Sent a letter to Mr. C this evening. Hope that I will hear from him very soon. I am so anxious about him. What could I do without him?

Thursday, 14.

Spent most of the morning in sewing. It has been showery all day so that the children could not take their walk. Mrs. B called this afternoon. After she had left, Miss Merrill called. She is full of life-invited me to spend Saturday evening with her. I expected a letter in the mail but none came. Did not think of one coming in the next mail, but Mr. B brought me one. What pleasure it was to receive a letter from Mr. Courtright, and to hear that he was well and happily situated. My desire to see him was greater than it had been since he left. May God bless him in his labors and bring him safely home.

June, Friday, 15, 1866.

This has been a most beautiful day. Went up town this morning, but no mail for us. Bought Stella a primer and a new pair of shoes. She was delighted when I came home with them. This evening she went to the schoolroom expecting to find the teacher there but came home and said that the teacher had gone. I did not know that she was out of the yard. She is teaching Kittie her letters and says that she learns fast. I felt very lonesome this afternoon and evening. Do hope that Mr. Courtright will return tomorrow so that we can spend our Sabbath together.

Saturday, 16.

I took the children with me to the far depot expecting to meet their Papa but he did not come. I expected to get a letter but had to be disappointed again. In the meantime I had been at the depot to meet the last train. It is very lonesome. This evening had some difficulty in getting the children to sleep. They were very much disappointed also on account of their Papa not coming . Stella cried as if her heart would break. Thought that I ought to remain at the depot until her Papa would come. Kittie cried a little but soon ceased. She said that her Papa would come another day. She takes things more quietly than Stella.

Sunday, 17.

Attended divine service this morning. Heard a sermon from Dr. MacDonald. The text was taken from the 37th Psalm, 4th Verse, "Delight thyself also in the Lord and he shall give thee the desires of thy heart." I enjoyed it very much. It was a plain, practical sermon. After dinner read a while in My Father's [word omitted] and when Stella awakened from her usual nap taught her part of a Bible verse. This evening led in family worship; have resolved that whenever Mr. Courtright is absent will conduct it myself. May God help me to keep my resolution. The girl was not here and so was not present. I feel much happier for performing my duty. Had felt it is my duty every night but would try to excuse myself from it.

June.Monday, 18, 1866.

As this was washing day and I have not much time for sewing, thought what little spare time that I could get would spend in writing letters. I received three letters. The first was from my dear husband. How thankful I am that he is well although very anxious to be with us again. Though not any more so than we are to see him, but the time will pass and Saturday will come. Then, Providence permitting, he will be home again. Received a letter from Mary. I should learn a lesson of punctuality from her. A letter came for Mr. Courtright from Aunt Lucy this evening. Wrote three letters, one to Mr. Courtright, one to Father, one to Mrs. H.

Tuesday, 19.

Received another letter from Mr. Courtright today. How kind he is to write so often. Wrote three letters and sent two: one to Mr. C and another to Aunt Lucy. This evening has been one that brought many little cares which it requires patience to bear. Just before tea, Stella fell down on the stone walk and hurt her forehead. It is very much swollen. Then after tea, the baby was taken sick; besides, I was very tired and have had a toothache all the evening. I do hope that both of the children will soon be well, for it worries Mr. C so much to hear hat they were sick when he was away; for I shall feel it my duty to tell him of it if they are not better.

Wednesday, 20.

Spent a great portion of this day in writing letters. Sent four letters, one to Mr. Courtright, one to Kittie, one to Abner and one to Aunt Mary. I have only one more to write and then I do not owe anyone a letter. Attended prayer meeting this afternoon. Dr. McKosh of Belfast, Ireland made some very good remarks. He commenced by reading a few verses in the 17th Chapter of St. John, commencing at the 20th Verse. He is quite an old man and a very earnest speaker. His main point seemed to be the desire of the Presbyterian Churches of Great Britain to be united in feeling with the churches of our country. Think that it can be easily done once slavery is abolished. [He] Spoke of the Evangelical Alliance about to be established in the United States.

June, Thursday, 21, 1866.

Today I finished my letters by writing one to sister Mary. This afternoon was at the library with Mr. and Mrs. Le B. Brought home four [books]: Ferdinand and Isabella, Life of Oliver Cromwell, The Preacher and the King and Cowper's Poems. I wish to read every day and will not confine myself to one kind of reading. This evening finished a book that I borrowed. It is so lonesome when Mr. Courtright is away that if I had the time would love to read during a great portion of the day. Went out walking with the children. They are anxious for Saturday to come so they can see their Papa.

Friday, 22.

Spent this morning in sewing, endeavoring to get completed what I had on hand. Was very much surprised this afternoon; while I was reading, Mr. Courtright stepped up on the porch. It was not long before I was down to meet him. The children had gone out walking to the woods some time before and as Mr. C had come in a buggy, he thought he would see if he could leave the horse and buggy at Mr. Right and then we would go and meet the children. But they returned before we were ready to start. They were very much rejoiced to see him; Kitty nearly smothered him with kisses. How much I enjoyed family worship this evening.

Saturday, 23.

This morning Mr. Courtright was busy working in the garden. Placed frames all around the tomato plants. I was busy preparing food for the Sabbath. This evening we took Stella and Kittie with us to ride. We rode past the Seminary and round past Dr. Green's then drove down through Queenstown and out towards Kingston. It was a very pleasant ride, just cool enough to be pleasant. Mr. Courtright drove down towards the canal before we returned home. How I enjoyed the rest of the evening, quite different from the long, lonely evenings during his absence; but the next two months will pass away, and then I shall enjoy his society all the time.

June, Sunday, 24, 1866.

This has been a very warm day. We were at church this morning; heard a sermon from Dr. MacDonald . His text was John, 4th Chapter and 24th Verse: "God is a spirit and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth." Endeavored to read this afternoon but it was so warm that the baby could not rest so I spent most of the time in taking care of him. This evening enjoyed myself in reading some of Cowper's good old poems. I have felt sad at times all the evening, thinking that it is the last evening I will spend with my dear husband for some time. Oh, may his life be spared long.

Monday, 25.

This morning Mr. Courtright left me, we do not know for exactly what length of time. The children comfort themselves by saying that he will return on Saturday. They have been with me in my room all day. Stella has learned several new words in her book. She seems to take delight in reading what she has learned. I have read a chapter in each one of my books. This evening passed away rather unpleasantly. The children were very fretful. Had the baby in my arms all the time and felt sick besides having a toothache. Jennie kept leaving her work in order to have a chat with the Conovers. She ought to have had it finished and been helping me.

Tuesday, 26.

Was occupied this morning with taking care of the children, writing a letter to Mr. Courtright and reading. This afternoon went to hear an address to the college students delivered by Mr. Duryea. His subject was "The Heroes of Nassau." It was received well, as everything he says is. This evening attended the speaking in the church; heard four of the students speak. It was so very warm and I had such an uncomfortable seat that I did not enjoy the exercises very much. Had a pleasant walk through the seminary grounds after it was over. Though I could not help but wish that Mr. C were with me. My pleasures are much greater when shared with him.

June, Wednesday, 27, 1866.

Another warm day. Walked up town to buy some provisions; was so warm and tired when I returned home that I concluded not to attend the commencement exercises. There were many persons from abroad here. There were three passenger cars attached to the engine to convey persons to the depot. I wrote another letter to my dear husband today and received one from him. Reading his letter and writing one to him was much more pleasant than any of the commencement could be. Received a letter from Father and one from Mary. Father wrote a very affectionate letter. I was so glad to hear from him.

Thursday, 28.

This morning wrote a letter to Mr. Courtright and read some in Ferdinand and Isabella. This afternoon finished the children's dresses that I have had on hand so long. This evening was at Mrs. Vohn's then went downtown of an errand. Called at [the] Misses Merrills', then returned by the post office but did not find any letters there for us. On my way home saw Mrs. Laird. She seems to be a very kind woman; invited me to spend the afternoon with her soon. Soon after I came home, Mr. and Mrs. B came in and spent the evening. The children were in great glee when they came and had a fine romp with Mr B. They were taken upstairs very reluctantly.

Friday, 29.

I was very much surprised this evening in seeing Mr. Courtright step into the kitchen. I did not expect to see him until next week, but it is so pleasant to have him home now for I have not been well this week, which makes me miss his society more. How happy I felt when we had family worship and I heard his voice again, reading the scriptures and leading in earnest prayer. The children seem to enjoy it very much, but they always wish to have singing. Very little voices sound so sweet when they attempt to perform their part. I hope that when they grow older and understand the meaning of the words that it will afford them as much pleasure.

Saturday, 30, 1866.

This morning the girl was so sick that she was not able to be up, so I had a double portion of work to perform today. Stella was sick this forenoon but is better tonight. I had Lizzie to help me take care of the children. Mr. Courtright worked in the garden all day and it well shows it, for the weeds were fast taking possession. I do not like to have him work so hard when he comes home to remain so short a time. But the garden must be hoed if we expect to have many vegetables. I feel very tired tonight. The girl has not sat up any yet. I do hope that
she will soon be able to be about again.

July, Sunday, 1.

We did not feel well this morning so did not attend church. Spent a portion of the time teaching the children Bible verses. Stella, with a little assistance, can repeat two. One is, "Suffer little children to come unto me and forbid them not, for such is the kingdom of heaven." The other [is], "God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, that whomsoever believeth in him shall not perish but have everlasting life." We attended preaching in the evening and heard a sermon from Reverend Mr. Hodge. His text was taken from the 14th Chapter of St. John, 16th and 26th Verses. He seems so much like his father. The Sabbath passed very pleasantly for me.

Monday, 2.

Did not accomplish much today as it has been wash day. Mr. C left us again today. I accompanied him to the depot, and then, having some errands to do, went up town. Felt very tired when I returned. After putting the children to sleep, read a while and then commenced sewing. Mrs. B came in and spent two hours; it was then teatime. After tea I went to mail but no letters; waited until after the 9 o'clock mail, then returned home very tired. The children were not asleep. Stella wanted to recite her lesson and went to sleep very reluctantly. Kittie always wants to go to sleep with her arms around my neck. It seems as if she gets more affectionate every day. The baby has not been well today.

July, Tuesday, 3, 1866.

I arose at five o'clock and commenced writing a letter to Father but did not finish it before breakfast as I wished. My time was occupied from breakfast until time to prepare dinner with the children. After dinner I finished my letter to Father and wrote one to Mr. Courtright. Did not have time to write a very long one, for the children needed my attention. This has been ironing day and I have much more to do about the housework than other days. Was at the office this evening. Called on Mrs. Baker. She was very friendly, [lending] me some little patterns. Was much disappointed in not receiving any letters today but tomorrow will have one from Mr. C.

Wednesday, 4.

Did not arise until late. The baby was sick until midnight and then I was obliged to rest later this morning. Wrote a letter to sister Mary and received one from Mr. Courtright. He is sick and disappointed about his work. How I wish that he was home and could remain all the time. Am so fearful that he will be taken so sick that he cannot come home. Would have written to him again but thought that it might be useless. Since receiving his letter, am sorry that I did not send one today, but it is too late now. Will try and get one in early in the morning. I did not accomplish but very little of any kind of work today.

Thursday, 5.

This morning I went up to town to take a letter to the office; I had written to Mr. Courtright before breakfast. Expected to get it in the 9 o'clock mail but was too late. I engaged some currants for jelly, then returned home. Felt so sick that I was obliged to lie down awhile. This afternoon I attempted to sew, but it was so warm that I could not accomplish much. Spent most of the time in reading. Mr. Courtright came home this evening. I was so, so glad to see him. Time will pass pleasantly now for me and I do hope that home will be pleasant for him. He made such a good prayer in family worship tonight. His whole soul seems to pour itself out in earnest prayer to God. May I feel more of the Saint's influences.

July, Friday, 6, 1866.

This morning I made some currant jelly. Succeeded so well that I concluded to make some more tomorrow. Mr. Courtright helped me as usual. I do think that he can assist me in anything that he undertakes about the house better than any woman that I ever had to help me. He is a helpmeet as well as meet or mate. He was busy in the garden when not occupied in the house his evening concluded that I would try and set some good rising for bread, as the girl does not seem to know how to make good bread. We did not have tea until late as Jennie went up town.

Saturday, 7.

Arose early this morning to work out my bread. Succeeded in working it and picking over some currents before breakfast. Spent the rest of the morning preparing food for Sabbath and making jelly. Also gave the children a good bath. The baby thought that it was fine sport, judging from the way he laughed and played. It has been extremely warm today. There was some air stirring, but it was warm air. Mrs. B. was here awhile this afternoon. The baby was on the floor and played and laughed so sweetly. We were out in the yard on the porch this evening until nearly retiring time.

Sunday, 8.

Mr. Courtright preached twice today, in the afternoon at {name left blank]; in the evening in the Colored Church. He preached extempore and succeeded very well. I would love to have heard him. Jenny was away all day. She wanted to go to Trenton, but being disappointed spent the day with some of her friends in the country. The baby has been sick all the afternoon, but sleeps well this evening. The children have been very mischievous today. Stella repeated her Bible verses very well. The day has seemed long; it always does when I do not attend church. We had a nice little shower this afternoon, which has cooled the atmosphere.

July, Monday, 9, 1866.

Did not feel well today, as I was kept awake by the baby during the night. He is not well. Suppose that he will soon cut some teeth. I did not sew any today as I had extra housework to perform. Knit one piece for my quilt. Am determined to try and accomplish more of everything I undertake during the future. I finished Shirley this morning and read some in Ferdinand and Isabella this afternoon. Tonight have been reading The Preacher and the King, but how little I have done in comparison to what I might have accomplished. I must improve every hour.

Tuesday, 10.

I arose early after reading a chapter. Commenced to prepare some sewing for the day. After breakfast Mr. Courtright assisted me on the machine. After making three pairs of stockings, I altered Stella's and Kittie's dresses. This kept me busy until four o'clock when I went uptown and purchased some things. Went to the office; received a letter from sister Mary. She will soon be done with her school. Expected a letter from sister Kittie but none came. Tonight I was very tired; endeavored to read but soon fell asleep. I do wish I would not feel so worn out when night comes so that I could read.

Wednesday, 11.

We have been busy all day, sewing and cutting out patterns. I took a letter to the office before breakfast. After breakfast Mr. Courtright cut me some patterns while I did my morning's work. Then we commenced working in earnest, he at the machine and I with my hands. Among other things, worked on a little bonnet for the baby; had to rip it out and do it over again. This evening I went up town again for some little things necessary for my sewing and stopped at the office. Received another letter from sister Kittie. I sewed this evening until bedtime; hope to get through with it before long and then I will have a little rest.

July, Thursday, 12, 1866.

Another busy day has passed in sewing. This afternoon had been so warm that I felt like giving it up and going to reading. We finished four little garments for the boy, a bonnet, saque and two shirts. He will soon get his short clothes on and then how sweet he will look. Mr. Courtright rocked him asleep this evening. He does love his Papa so much, for he would rather have him hold him than anyone else. The children enjoyed walking out this evening. They came into the house full of glee, telling what a nice time they had walking up and down our street.

Friday, 13.

This has been a very warm day, but I did sew some. This afternoon Mrs. B was here. She had just returned from Philadelphia. I went up town this evening. Started when it was nearly dark so as to have the cool of the evening for my walk. Went across by the College. Did not receive any letters. Went to the saloon and treated myself to a dish of ice cream. Bought the little boy a pair of shoes, the first that he has had. Went to Mrs. Vohn's, expecting to have a dress fitted, but she said that it was too late. Was very tired after I returned home; attempted to read some, but it was not long before I had dropped asleep.

Saturday, 14.

We arose very early so as to get our baking and other work done before the heat of the day. Last night was the warmest night that we have had this season. It was very warm this morning but we had a shower this afternoon, which has cooled the atmosphere some. Mrs. B and I went uptown together for the mail this evening. She treated me to a dish of ice cream. We waited for the last mail, and being very tired, sat on the college steps to wait for it. But I did not get any letter. I was so tired that I could hardly walk home and found Stella sick. Kittie and the baby were asleep. Am not at all well myself but hope to be better.

July, Sunday, 15, 1866.

It was so warm that we could not sleep. Had an early breakfast and thought some of going to church, but as neither of us felt very well, concluded that it was best to remain at home and read. Very rarely write a letter on Sunday, but wrote a short one to each of my sisters. We went to church this evening. Heard a sermon from Dr. Macdonald. His text was taken from Matthew, the 15th Chapter and the last clause of the 25th Verse: "Lord Help me." We had a good practical sermon. Although he did not treat the subject as he proposed to do when he commenced the sermon, there was much that we could learn from it.

Monday, 16.

Arose early this morning for we could not sleep. Stella and I were quite sick during the night. The baby seemed very restless so that he could not have been well either. Mr. Courtright was up with us constantly so that he could not rest any. He took a severe cold in his head from which he has been suffering all day.I did not have the washing done today as I was not able to assist about the housework. Attempted to sew but could not do much at it. Kittie was sick too, so we all consoled each other as much as we could. Did not get any letters today. It does seem so strange that some of our friends do not write.

Tuesday, 17.

This was washday. I arose early; prepared the breakfast and helped do the kitchen work so Jennie could get at the washing soon. Stella and Kittie were playing at the window this morning and Kittie pushed out the stick which held it up. Stella's hand was under it, so it fell on her hand and mashed her fingers very badly. She bore the pain bravely. It has pained her very much today. We have been looking very anxiously for rain today as it has been so very warm. The thermometer stood as high as 102 in the middle of the day. We have every appearance of rain this evening; I do hope that we will have a good shower.

July, Wednesday, 18, 1866.

We have been sewing nearly all day. Will soon have the baby's clothes made. I did not read any as I felt very tired this evening and in the evening is my only time for reading. It has been very windy all day and tonight we are having rain, which is very refreshing after such warm weather. The baby had his short clothes on this afternoon for the first time. He does look so sweet in them. We had him out riding all of the evening. He seemed to enjoy it so much Stella recited her lesson two or three times today. She seems to love her book better every day.

Thursday, 19.

We had a very pleasant day for weather as there was rain in the night. I finished some of my sewing this morning. This afternoon spent in knitting. Mrs. B was here both afternoon and evening. She commenced knitting her a quilt. The children were all out this afternoon. The baby does not seem well since his ride and appears to be very tired. Her [Stella's] hand is not well yet and seems to give her pain. Kittie was tired too for she asked to be taken to bed. They love to be taken out so much but get tired easily for it is hard for them to keep up with grown-ups.

Friday, 20.

I went up town this morning to try on a dress that Mrs. Van Vores cut out for me; could hardly get home, I felt so sick and tired. After resting a little, Mr. C and I put away our jelly, having put brandy papers over them, so dinnertime came without any sewing being done. After dinner, thought I would knit awhile and then sew, but Mrs. B came in and we spent the afternoon in knitting. The baby does not seem well at all today, for he has taken but very little of his milk. Yet, he has been so sweet. He has been lying on the floor in the room with us. I felt more like playing with him than knit.

July, Saturday, 21, 1866.

The baby has been sick all day and does not seem as well this evening. We had the doctor and he says that he will most probably be well soon. I have had him in my arms most of the time. Jennie had all of the housework to do today and she has done it well. [She] has been very kind about helping me wait on the baby. Mr. Courtright knows just what to do in sickness. I am very glad that he is at home now. We have seen Stella and Kittie but very little of the time today for Jennie has kept them downstairs. Stella reads in her book to herself when we do not have time to hear her.

Sunday, 22.

The baby was worse this morning. He seemed to have high fever. The doctor left some powders for him to take which seems to have helped him. He seems a little better this evening. We were both up with the baby during the night so we took turns in taking care of him today, and each of us took a nap. Jennie keeps the children all day. They feel very badly about their little brother being sick. Could not teach the children any Bible verses or catechism today. We do hope and pray that our dear little boy will be spared to us, for he is so good and sweet.

Monday, 23.

We were up with the baby all night but he was much better this morning. He notices us all and seems inclined to play. The doctor says that he will soon be well again. We did not wash today as we though it best to wait until the baby is better. I joined my pieces for a quilt together. Have about one sixth of it done. Thought I had it nearly one third done. I have 260 large pieces to knit yet. Must try and finish it soon. Had a nice romp with the baby tonight. The children were out walking this afternoon so they feel quite happy tonight; a walk always does them good.

July, Tuesday, 24, 1866.

Have been sewing almost all day. The baby seems very much better. He has sit on the floor with pillows around him and played by himself. When tired, would lie down on the pillow and fall asleep. Jennie washed today and we sewed upstairs. Mr. Courtright helps me so much by working the machine. I felt too tired today to accomplish much; suppose it is because I have been deprived of sleep. It seems to me that I would rather play with the baby than work. I feel so happy to think that he is so much better.

Wednesday, 25.

The baby is sick again this morning. When I washed and dressed him, he seemed fretful and did not give me the usual kisses and did not like to be played with. We thought that he was worse; this afternoon he seemed to suffer so much from pain that we sent for the doctor. He left us some medicine and said that he would call again in the morning. I have held him in my arms nearly all of the afternoon and evening. How I would love to see him well again but am fearful that he will not recover while warm weather continues.

Thursday, 26.

The baby is not so well this morning-has high fever. The doctor thinks that there is some danger of his having the inflammation of the brain. Dear little boy, how hard it is to see him suffer so much. Mrs. B has been here this afternoon. She is coming to sit up a part of the night with the baby so that we can rest some. We have been up with him every night since he was first taken sick. I do not have any time now for taking care of the children. Jennie keeps them downstairs with her all of the time. Stella sometimes gets her books and tries to teach herself.

July, Friday, 27, 1866.

The baby does not seem to improve. The doctor comes twice a day and leaves several powders each time for him to take. We shall be so glad when the fever abates for that seems to be the main difficulty. We bathe his head and bowels constantly as there is danger of fever in the head and inflammation in the bowels. He has taken a great deal of calomel syrup. The doctor has left some more for him to take during the night. He seems to suffer much but is so patient with it all. How hard it is to see him suffer so and not be able to help him.

Saturday, 28.

Another week has passed and Callie is not as well as he was at the close of last week. May the close of another week see a change for the better in him, but I feel now that we may lose him any time. May we have strength from above if this great affliction is to be given us. The doctor has not given us any grounds for discouragement yet, so we will hope as long as there is life. We are both with him all of the time. Jennie seeing to the housework and taking care of Stella and Kittie. We will not leave him a moment until he is well.

Sunday, 29.

The dear little boy does not seem any better. His fever continues to be very high. He does not wish either of us to leave his cradle a moment. We are thankful that his mind is still clear; with his fever, this is remarkable. We bathe his head continually with cold water and how he loves it. We were awakened early this morning by the cry of "Fire!" A large sawmill was burned to the ground and there have been many carriages and wagons passing that way so that the noise has been kept up all day. I fear it will hurt the baby as he is very sensitive.

July, Monday, 30, 1866.

The dear little pet yet lives. This morning he became worse; his limbs are getting cold. We put mustard plasters to his feet but they did not seem to do any good. He grew worse as night came on. We were very anxious for the doctor to come as he always came to see him in the evening. We were obliged to send for him. He said that he was glad that he came, for the baby was very sick after he left. The dear little boy seemed to be sinking away, but at seven o'clock he became better. The crisis had passed. Mr. and Mrs. B will remain with us all night.

Tuesday, 31.

The baby is a little better today, although very weak. He is conscious and does not like to have anyone come near him except Mr. Courtright and myself. He cannot cry aloud, but moans so pityfully. This evening his little bowels are swollen. The doctor says that there will an abscess form on his liver, and if it will break and pass off into his bowels, perhaps he will get better. He will have to gain much strength in the meantime. I feel as if we were to lose him, but as long as there is life, we will hope. God only knows whether his life will be spared.

August, Wednesday, 1.

The dear little one continues to be very weak but his liver and bowels seem to be getting in a more healthy state. The doctor did not leave any medicine for him to take today or tonight as he is too weak. He told us to make him some punch and feed it to him in order that he might gain strength, but he does not like to eat, and most of the time we force it down him. Mrs. Conover kindly offered to watch him a while tonight in order that we might get some rest. But I cannot rest much as long as he remains in this critical condition.

August, Thursday, 2, 1866.

The baby seems to be better and tonight has a good appetite. The doctor says that he thinks that he will not have any abscess now. If he continues to gain strength as he has done, he will soon be well. He stayed here a long while this evening and seemed very happy to think that the baby was so much better. I hardly dare to hope for any little change in the disease; it may carry him off. I shall sit up with him tonight myself for as long as I can stand it. Will prefer to be with him until he is well. Since the doctor left he seems to suffer much although his appetite is good.

Friday, 3.

Our little pet is dead. He died about ten o'clock this evening. He suffered much during last night. This morning [he] appeared very bright. [I] discovered a large abscess on his back this morning. The doctor soon came and said it would most probably break on the outside, and if he had strength to stand a discharge he might live yet. But tonight it burst on the inside and he did not survive long. His appetite increased all day long. He suffered very much from hunger to the last moment. We gave him nourishment every few minutes. He was conscious within five minutes of his death.

Saturday, 4.

After a restless night, I arose early and went into the room where my dear little boy was laid out. Spent an hour with him alone for the last time. The dear boy looked so natural. How hard it is to realize that he is dead. The neighbors are very kind doing all that they can do for us in this our sore affliction but God is our chief source of help. He alone can help us. We both feel that it is for the best that he is taken from us, and do not wish him back in this world of trouble. Stella and Kittie do not seem to realize that they will not have a brother here.

August, Sunday, 5, 1866.

This has been a very sad day to us. The funeral services were at four o'clock. We kept the baby in ice until about two. Then he was dressed and put in his dear little casket, for what else could we put the dear little jewel in? We kept our little Callie with us in the room [after] he died as long as we could. Stella and Kittie kissed him but did not seem to know what they were losing. How lonely the house seems tonight. But why should we feel sad when he is so happy? He will never return to us but we may go to him. What a blessed consolation.

Monday, 6.

This morning I collected together all of little Callie's things and put them away. Mr. Courtright took the dear cradle apart and put it way for it looked so empty without him in it. Stella and Kittie were kept from him so much while he was sick that they do not feel his loss as they would have done had they been with him all the time. This afternoon we took a walk down the street. On our way back [we]called on Mrs. B. Then we all went to the library. We thought of going to the cemetery but I was so sick and tired that I concluded to wait until another day.

Tuesday, 7.

Have spent most of the day in sewing. Mrs. B was here this morning. She seems to sympathize with us in our loss. This evening we were at the cemetery to visit the dear Callie's grave. How glad I shall be when there is grass on it. But he is not in the grave, but in a world of pure delight. How we do cling to the form after the spirit has left it. We expected some letters tonight but as usual there were none for us. We bought two books at the Smiths' store and they lent us one. Mr. Courtright read to me tonight from The Young Pastor.

August, Wednesday, 8, 1866.

I spent a part of this morning sewing, then went up town chiefly for the mail; there were no letters for us. Then I stopped at Mrs. Vohres a little while and then returned home. I read until dinner time. After the children fell asleep I wrote a letter to Aunt Lucy. This evening Mr. Courtright and I went to the depot to meet our father, as we have been expecting him to make us a visit. But he did not come then. We were at the office but found no letters there for us. I called on Mrs. Baker while waiting for the mail.

Thursday, 9.

Have been sewing most of the day. This morning was hardly able to be out of my bed. Feeling better in the afternoon, I went down to see Mrs. B a little while. Was quite sick and lay down on her bed a while, then returned home. I have been reading The Story of Kennet by Bayard Taylor. Am very much interested in it. We have such pleasant weather for this time of the year. Received a letter from father this evening. He cannot make us a visit now for he does not feel well enough to come. This evening I spent in reading. Time passes very slowly since the baby died.

Friday, 10.

Have not been well again today, but try to accomplish what I can. Have been reading Ferdinand and Isabella and The Chronicles of Castlegate. This afternoon Mrs. B came here and remained a while; she persuaded me to go and see her a while. She said that it would do me good to go out. So I went with her and called on Mrs. Vohres at the same time. After tea, feeling better, I called on Mrs. Laird who has been sick. She is much better and she accompanied me home. She is a very kind, friendly woman. Such friends are not met with often here.

August, Saturday, 11,1866.
This morning I spent in sewing. In the afternoon I gave it up, being very tired, and knit some on my quilt while Mr. Courtright read to me. The time passed away very pleasantly. The children enjoyed going out this evening. They seem to be very fond of flowers; when they cannot get them, they will pull the weeds that they find in the yard. They ask me about dear little Callie often, but do not seem to miss him as we thought they would. But they were not with him much when he was sick.

Sunday, 12.

I enjoyed this Sabbath very much. As I did not feel very well, was quite undecided as to my duty about attending church this morning. But as we were to have communion, I concluded to go and enjoyed the services very much. Feeling much better in the Spirit and body on my return. I committed fifteen verses in St. John today and read in Winifred Bertram a religious story which interested me very much This evening the children and I sang "Happy Land" and "I Want To Be An Angel." Heaven seems nearer and more real since Callie's death.

Monday, 13.

This morning I ripped apart my quilt that I have been knitting. Crocheted it together again as I found I had made it too narrow. It kept me busy nearly all day. I had time, though, to knit one more piece for it. It has been raining since morning, which is very refreshing this time of the year.

FROM FAMILY RECORDS

Calvin Whitfield Courtright     b. 15 Nov 1839, d. 17 Dec 1929
Sarah Eliza Albach                 b. 25 May 1843, d. 12 Dec 1931
Married on Dec. 5, 1861

Offspring:
Mary Estella (Stella) 15 Sep 1862 - 28 July 1964
Katherine Louise (Kittie) 15 Sep 1862 - 28 July 1964
John Calvin 23 Nov 1865 - 5 Aug 1866
Sadie 21 Nov 1866 - 14 Apr 1875
Helen (Birdie) 25 Dec 1867 - 1 Dec 1937
Clara 27 Feb 1869 - 11 July 1869
Alice Bertha 16 Nov 1870 - ? 1959
Mabel 6 May 1874 - 16 June 1922
Charles Hodge 17 Feb 1873 - ? Jan 1941
Nellie 15 Nov 1875 - 26 June 1876
Gertrude Sophia 15 Mar 1877 - 18 Apr 1944
Frederick W 2 Apr 1878 - 1 June 1955
Robert Morris 4 May 1879 - 16 June 1961
Dana 24 Sep 1882 - ?
Elizabeth Root 24 Feb 1886 - 26 July 1941

A FEW EXPLANATORY NOTES:

Monday, June 11: Calvin was absent and in another town for 17 out of the 64 days of this diary. Though Rev. Wm. Harris, archivist of Princeton Theological Seminary, says there are no records of students' summer employment of that year, the diary says that he left and returned on the train and that he was doing some kind of work. It is possible that he was "practice preaching" and learning about the daily chores of a Presbyterian minister through an internship. Rev. Harris says these would include, "...how to call on the sick; how to win members into the church; the practical matters regarding the baptism of infants, the conduct of funerals, counseling and conduct of marriage; and what to talk about and how to act when making pastoral calls."

Tuesday, June 12: Rev. Harris located the Courtrights' Princeton residence. He says, "According to the list showing the addresses of the student body published each year, the Courtrights lived on Canal Street, which today is called Alexander Street. This is the street which ran from the Canal office on Mercer Street some two miles to the canal. It was lined on either side with humble homes of local artisans and canal workers. Those humble homes today are much prized because of their lovely Federal-style architecture."

Wednesday, June 27: Sarah's father, James R. Albach, was the publisher of Annals of the West, 1847. He is buried in Oxford, Ohio, and his death date is recorded as 4/20/1865, a year before this diary was written. We must conclude that "Father" in this diary is Calvin's father, John Jacob Courtright, who, according to Sarah's obituary in the Oakland Glenview News Monthly, January, 1932, financed his son's education at Princeton.

Sunday, July 1: The Reverend Mr. Hodge was the son of a much beloved minister, noted for his practical sermons at the Seminary, according to Rev. Wm. Harris.

Saturday, July 7: It was the custom of Presbyterians of this time not to cook on Sunday, but to prepare the Sabbath food on Saturday, a risky custom since the weather was very hot in summer and refrigeration was nearly non-existent. There are so many references to each family member being sick in this short diary that it seems possible that food spoilage was sometimes the cause. However, we should also remember that Sarah was in her second trimester of pregnancy and may often have had morning sickness.

Sunday, July 8: Rev. Harris says, "That church still exists. It is the Witherspoon Street Presbyterian Church which was founded in 1840 for the large number of African Americans who, while members of the First Presbyterian Church, desired to have their own church. It has always been a strong congregation."

Tuesday, July 10: Sarah's sisters, Mary and Kittie, also attended the Female Institute in Oxford, Ohio.

Saturday, July 21: Rev. Harris suggests that, since there were no doctors of medicine practicing in Princeton at this time, the doctor mentioned in this entry is most likely their neighbor, the Rev. Dr. William Henry Green. It was not uncommon for a doctor of divinity to include ministering to the sick as one of his responsibilities. He says, "There is a tradition of men of the cloth giving medical advice. John Wesley published a very popular paperback in 18th Century England on practical medicine and ministers often had read books on household medical advice, the contents of which they passed along to poor and inexperienced people. There were no strict standards of medical practice as we have today."

References: Princeton Architecture: A Pictorial History of Town and Campus; C.M. Greiff; Princeton Univ. Press, 1967 A History of Princeton and its Institutions, Vol. 1 & 2, J.F. Hageman; Lippincott, 1879 The text of Sarah Courtright's Diary, without notes, illustrations or photos, is registered in the United States Copyright Office at the Library of Congress, #TXu 977-503; 7/10/00

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

The Reverend Wm. Harris, Librarian of Princeton Theological Seminary's Archives and Special Collections, has provided enormous assistance by explaining customs of the day, recommending resources, researching Calvin's records, and deciphering Sarah's handwriting. He recommended old and new books for me to research, sent me maps of early and present day Princeton and helped me make sense of many entries. I cannot thank him enough for his interest and enthusiasm for my project.

Ms. Marisa Morigi, Registrar of the Historical Society of Princeton, New Jersey, sent me many photos of the Princeton depots that were so important to Sarah and her family.

Ms. Valerie E. Elliott, Head of the Smith Library of Regional History in Oxford, Ohio unearthed Albach family records and sent me photos of old Oxford. She was extremely kind and helpful.

Robert Schmidt of the Miami University Archives in Oxford researched Calvin and Sarah's school records and those of Sarah's sisters. He found the beautiful photo of newly married Sarah and Calvin and made sure I got good prints and negatives.

Aunts Marjorie Simonds Andrews and Eleanor Simonds Leonard saved articles, family documents, photos and memories that contributed to our family archive of information about the Courtrights. Their sister, my mother, Katherine Simonds Wensberg preserved photos and Sarah's original diary through many changes of address. Without their thoughtfulness we would not have known what lay in Sarah's heart in that fateful year of 1866.

Erik D. Wensberg, my brother and Calvin and Sarah's great grandson, patiently counseled me on the editing of this diary. He recommended that I correct some spelling, add a few words in brackets where it helped to make better sense, but always to preserve Sarah's clear, passionate voice. His respect and support for my work gave me hope that one day I'd be able to share that voice with my family.

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